<p>Psychology</a> Today: Self Tests</p>
<p>I got a 19 overall
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According to your score, you’re a total egoist. Your main priority tends to be your own needs and welfare – and no one else’s. You look out for your own interests and well-being, and don’t really see a need to concern yourself with those of other people. Unfortunately, your excessive self-absorption is an unhealthy attitude that can leave you as a solitary traveler through life. Being altruistic doesn’t imply you have to give away every last cent and the clothes off your back – simple gestures of kindness (e.g. holding the door open for someone, giving up your seat on a bus to someone who really needs it) can go a long way. To feel a part of humanity and good about yourself, it is important to commit acts of kindness – not only for your own sense of happiness, but for others’ as well.
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<p>39 Empathy
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Your results indicate that empathy is generally not one of your strong suits. Either you have difficulty identifying with other people and their feelings, or you simply choose not to see things from their perspective. Many researchers believe that empathy is a defining characteristic of true altruists. It’s the ability to empathize with others that often motivates people to help someone. Although you may very well be a selfless person, being able to really understand where others’ are coming from and why they would truly benefit from your consideration makes a kind gesture all the more meaningful. If you don’t have compassion for others and their suffering, then you may not be as motivated to do something to benefit them. Taking a moment to put yourself in other people’s shoes and trying to see the world through their eyes can really teach you a lot about them, and yourself.
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<p>14 Helpfulness
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Your score on the Helpfulness scale was quite low. You rarely, if ever, go out of your way to help others, and even if you do lend a helping hand, you’ll seldom do so without being asked. Although you’re not obligated to bend over backwards to help others, offering your support and being there when needed doesn’t just benefit the people around you but yourself as well. If you were to follow this path chances are that when you’re in need of a shoulder to lean on, you’ll have someone to turn to. The best part about helping others isn’t only that warm, fuzzy feeling it provokes, but its potentially “infectious” nature as well. That one person you help may do the same for someone else, and so on!
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<p>96 Opportunism
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Your responses allude to the fact that when you help others or extend a kind gesture to them, you rarely do so because you really want to. In most cases, you may have an underlying motive, such as wanting something in return. The hallmark of someone who truly cares about others is a genuine concern for their well-being and needs – not whether helping them can somehow be personally beneficial. This “cost/benefit” method of thinking dampens the spirit of true thoughtfulness and renders an act of kindness nearly valueless. You may want rethink whether this kind of attitude really does benefit you in the long-run, particularly in terms of your principles and the impression you could be giving others.
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<p>What did you guys get? I'm guessing that most people here will be egoists.</p>