<p>I would like to remind you that, as parents, we well know that our children had a first choice, second choice, and a third choice, for colleges. And Honestly, there were two or three that they could have been very good fits for them and they would have been very happy to attend. The one they ultimately go to happens for a family’s own personal reasons. </p>
<p>As parents, it is NOT our job to teach our children that there is absolutely ONE perfect college for them. There is no One Perfect job, house, spouse, pet, car, city, haircut, jacket, or anything else you care to name. Life is not a Disney princess movie. So just admit that these students could be just as happy at a few Well-Chosen colleges, and not just ONE.</p>
<p>We are on these boards to learn about the colleges, and to help them make the right decision the first time around. But some do not choose the right fit the first time, and that is a shame. More power to them if they can correct their mistake. It does not reflect on the college, but on their initial decision process.</p>
<p>As a moderator, you are supposed to facilitate, not stifle, discourse. It is your duty to lead the discussion in a civil and intelligent manner. You are not a 17 year old, you bring much more experience to bear here, so show it.</p>
<p>CMC obviously has many great strengths, and its own culture. The Claremont colleges are in a college suburb that is close to a major city, the area is not rural, it is not urban. BUT many prospective students will end up learning that they can be very happy in an an environment that is different from what they thought they wanted when they began their search – for many things in life.</p>