<p>My daughter, who is a high school senior, spent her junior year in Perugia, Italy, in a program sponsored by AFS. She had a fantastic time. She walked off the plane in Rome in September 2010 knowing little Italian; she walked back into her high school in August 2011 enrolled in the school’s AP Italian (although this may say mroe about the state of foreign language teaching in the U.S. than my daughter’s fluency).</p>
<p>My daughter has a 3.3 GPA. She came back with a packet of information from the Italian high school she attended that allowed her high school to adjust her transcript to account for the classes she took. She basically was given an “A” for Italian and “pass” for the other classes.</p>
<p>Before she left, and as we were planning for this year abroad, she had several meetings with her dean to make sure that a year abroad wouldn’t interfere with her graduating with the rest of her class. Because she had already taken most of the required classes for graduation, she only had to take a couple of classes this year as a senior that would otherwise have taken as a junior. (She’s also taking driver’s ed as a senior.)</p>
<p>We wouldn’t have let her do this if we didn’t think she was emotionally prepared and mature enough to do this. She worked part-time the entire year before she left, in order to pay for a third of the costs of the year abroad. She did not have a clear niche in ther hifg school, i.e., she wasn’t a jock, a straight “A” student, an artist, a musician, etc. She WAS looking for something that would make her stand out in a college application.</p>
<p>The summer between her freshman and sophomore year she spent a month with a group of high schoolers in Costa Rica on a service project (sponsored by Walking Tree Travel, another great organization). This month out of her comfort zone inspired her to convince her parents that she could study abroad in high school.</p>
<p>We were against it from the beginning for a variety of reasons, but she did a very good job of proving to us that she would make it work. and it did.</p>
<p>Now, she’s in the process of applying for colleges. She has a narrow field of places she is looking at – she wants to be in an urban enviroment and most of what she is looking at is in Chicago. But we are encouraging her to look at Colleges That Change Lives schools like Beloit (which actually has a scholarship available, I guess, for students who have lived abroad in high school).</p>
<p>So, we have no regrets, so far, about her choice and our decision to let her go. Of course, there is the Italian boyfriend who is coming to the states for the first time for two weeks at the end of December – that will be interesting.</p>