At this point I wouldn’t worry about specific schools or majors, it’s far too early ( this coming from an absolute planner). Most important thing is for your kid to take great strong classes
—Said student is finished three h.s. years of math/languages, one of science, so can’t not help but have to plan forward a certain amount.
and create a life outside of school. Many CC’ers complain that there aren’t enough/the right extracurriculars at their school, but there’s a whole world out there. Have her get involved in something she loves, let her dabble in some things and go deep.
—There are deep (sport) and dabble (years of summer camps the student picked) interests slowly being developed.
Make sure that these things are not so bland that every kid is doing the same thing.
—Agreed. Her camp choices make her a bit of an outlier - only two weeks over several summers were STEM-related.
Tell her early how important class grades are and standardized tests.
—She has always been a good student, and understands how active learning and good grades can fuel her future dreams.
Don’t limit her to AP’s/colleges. There are lots of great online classes. One of my kids taught themselves a language. Another did a fashion course in engineering. There’s a lot online.
—Yes, looking to now supplement the public school curriculum.
I find it odd at best to think that your 8th/9th grader is going to go into the college major you have picked.
—She picked the dream design job. Out of all the STEM and humanities majors, MechEng is a solid foundation that suits her interests, but allows her to pivot should she want to.
And that you are worried about her getting a masters at this point.
—Because there is a specific masters program that is not dependent on incoming grades but skill-set that basically alligns with the dream job she’s had since she was 10. If she wants to pivot after undergrad and save the family a ton of money, even better. She’ll know when the time comes.
BTW, I have very mathy/ STEM kids. We’ve always done things (not only STEM) outside of school. My kids attended public schools for many years. Now are in top BS’s and thriving. The younger one, who is the same age as your daughter received multiple near full pay scholarships ( not based on FA but earned) for high school. Kid had to write an essay for one. No big deal.
—Those are wonderful outcomes and surely you are very proud of your kids. Great story! If you would PM me school suggestions given your child’s positive experience, perhaps my daughter could look into that. Our boarding school application experience resulted in two waitlists and an incomplete application.
How did this happen? Excellent grades and a kid that really knows what they like.
—Sounds exactly like my kid. It’s great when they can communicate this to parents.
We don’t push anything on our kids but we expect all that they do to be done with excellence. That’s it. It has worked out well so far.
—Sounds like a strong philosophy that we share.
The cost of education is sky high in the US. One has to make choices.
—Reason for this thread.
My advice would be to stop focusing on a house you bought in 2005 and start thinking about how your daughter can become a great applicant and attend a great school for little money.
—See above.
BTW< Olin is an excellent engineering college with very low costs. There are also many state schools and programs as you may have found. WPI loves women in STEM (but you have to try each school and see what happens).
—Due to you fine folks on cc, these are on the list. Much appreciated.
The good thing is, your child has her entire high school experience before her. But it does go by fast.
—Yes.
Also, I haven’t read this entire thread.
—Yes, it’s long. Many wonderful posts that have already helped our family so much. Perhaps just read all my posts to see the nuances of why I’m asking the questions that I am asking.
Hopefully, your expectations are in line with your child’s achievements.
—My child’s expectations need to be in line with her achievements - we’ve told her to go to the school that shows her the financial fit.
If you are looking for a full college scholarship, there will be lots of competition, even for a STEM girl.
—Yes, so given that other STEM gals have elite public schools or privates that give much academic guidance, the job falls on me for my daughter’s situation. There’s time for her to decide how to move forward. Me? I’m already done school. Won’t go back!
Have a budget, make a plan and see what the results are.
—Reason for this thread.
And I wouldn’t overload your child. Kids who are doing too much, even strong kids will burn out. Balance is the key. ( Believe me, I spend lots of time talking my older one out of trying to do it all).