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<p>Rude? Don’t you think it was a little rude for greenkids to come on here and bash Dartmouth and make false claims about it just because her son’s connections didn’t work and he was one of many accomplished applicants not to get accepted?</p>
<p>And if you’re going to criticize me, at least get my name right.</p>
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<p>Comparing me to the morons doing right-wing talk radio is more offensive than anything I said to greenkids.</p>
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<p>Uhh…ok…and I’m supposed to believe that the geniuses playing football at Stanford are discovering new chemical elements? Look, I’m not a fan of preferential treatment for athletes in admissions, particular at top academic schools that are supposed to be focusing on something else. In fact, I think it needs to stop. But to pretend that this problem is somehow limited exclusively to Dartmouth, rather than being systematic in nature, is absurd. It’s a completely laughable claim or implication to make. And for the record, in all fairness, as much as I’m not a fan of jocks, I must admit I actually met some intelligent ones during my time at Dartmouth. Do I think that they should have gotten a leg up in the admissions process because they are good at a sport? Absolutely not. But, that said, many of them do belong at the school, even if they got in for the wrong reasons.</p>
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<p>YOU are the one doing your son a disservice. Instead of focusing on what a meaningful activity he participated in, and what valuable experience he gained working in the Haitian village, you go on here and complain about how you are “over” Dartmouth and that they are “gaming the system” because your son got deferred. I’m sure it really was a great, meaningful experience for your son, and I’m sure he did it because he truly cared about helping those Haitian villagers. Such an experience will serve him well, and it’s a win for him no matter which college he ends up going to. Nevertheless, YOU are the one that made it sound like a calculated admissions ploy. YOU are the one that came on here and said, “I can’t believe my son did all that and they didn’t take him anyway.” What does that sound like to you? Imagine you saw or heard someone else make a similar statement. Wouldn’t it sound pompous, entitled, and arrogant? That is why I said that the best way you can help your son is to adjust your attitude (not to mention your expectations).</p>
<p>Look around this forum. Every year in December and April there is a thread on which applicants post their stats and their admissions decisions. Many who are as accomplished as your son, and some who are even more accomplished, get rejected. And yet, these stressed out, dejected 17 and 18 year old kids all have the dignity and graciousness to wish everyone else the best. Seriously. I’ve never seen a single post from a rejected student complaining or saying something along the lines of “Dartmouth is a crappy school because it didn’t admit me.” And yet you, a PARENT, have the audacity to go on here and complain about Dartmouth and talk about the “strategies” it uses to “climb the USNWR rankings” (which, as I’ve already indicated, was a total fabrication on your part)? Excuse me if I don’t feel too much sympathy for someone who expresses sentiments like that. Particularly when it’s a grown adult and not a stressed out high school senior.</p>