Don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
Not my circus, not my monkeys.
My personal favorite was always “This too shall pass” which helped when things were both wonderful (enjoy every moment) and when things were very hard (just wait it out). Helped keep perspective in many situations.
Love that!
In terms of mechanical things we needed once to get a knob off an appliance and you could SEE the screw but we couldn’t figure out how to get to it. Real puzzle. My engineer dad just said " It wasn’t born in there !" That simple statement just changed our whole perspective in an instant.
Related is the sign at our hospital pharmacy door–“If you didn’t have time to do it right the first time what makes you think you have time to do it over the second time?”
Could be! But this is something my dad taught me, and he only went to the sixth grade so I’m pretty sure he wasn’t thinking about college when he would say it. I miss him.
Don’t know how old your dad was. But my mom’s school when she was growing up only went to eighth grade. My grandfather moved towns to continue her education. Education was very important to him.
My dad would not have gotten to college except for family who chipped in money to make it happen. Can’t tell you how how much those decisions have extended over generations.