<p>Did you graduate high school here in the U.S.? If so, I would HIGHLY recommend that you schedule a few very thorough consultations with a college counselor there. Nothing I’m going to say is intended as an insult, so please don’t take it that way. I’m just being as honest as I can without trying to “sugar coat” anything. I’m not claiming to be anymore knowledgeable about this type stuation as anyone else here. But I MIGHT have a bit more life experience in these type matters as some, since I’m an older non-traditional student. But then again, I may not.</p>
<p>I am over 40 years old (but won’t say HOW much over
) I’ve already been through the complete college process once for an Assoc. degree. That included the whole mess … loans, grants, paying them off, etc. And I have also been through the process AGAIN, in a very limited manner, in the military. By that, I mean I just took 1 or 2 courses here & there, a time or two each year.</p>
<p>And lastly, I have also already been through the job process … 13 years in the military, 3 years with an electric utility, a year in the medical community, and a couple of other short-term jobs. Now I will be going back to school in the Spring to finish my Bachelor & get my Master. </p>
<p>I only included the above to show that I have quite a bit of school/work experience to go by. So trying to put myself in your position, just me myself personally … I would NEVER EVER take on the amount of loans you are mentioning. At $23,000 in loans each year, which you mention, you will find that you will have a VERY tough time ever paying that off … EXTREMELY tough.</p>
<p>So back to the counselor mentioned at first. You REALLY need to figure out how to do at least 1 of the following, preferably 2 or 3 of them. That counselor MIGHT can help you figure out how. If you don’t have any type of counselor available, then you’ll need to figure it out on your own … through LOTS of research, asking around on respected forums, talking to other college attendees, etc.</p>
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<li><p>Find a cheaper college. There’s LOTS of them WAY under that $20-some-odd-thousand-per-year which you mentioned.</p></li>
<li><p>Related to the above, but a bit different … look at a PUBLIC college. At the amount of money you are talking about, that’s surely a Private college. Or at the least it’s a VERY expensive Public one. If the latter, then there are LOTS of cheaper choices than what you’ve found. But if your chosen school is a Private, which I bet it is, you can easily get by on HALF that amount by going Public. And there are some very well respected ones available too. Nothing wrong with them</p></li>
<li><p>Look into the completely free “work colleges”. There are a few of them scattered around & they usually require you to work about 3-4 hours per day, an occasional night and/or weekend, & a couple 40-hour weeks between terms.</p></li>
<li><p>If the above isn’t an option, try to find a school that offers ANY type of work-study program. You won’t make a BUNCH of money, but ALL of it will go directly to your tuition, and it will make a noticable difference.</p></li>
<li><p>Apply for LOTS of scholarships. By “lots”, I’m talking on the order of 50-75 different applications. Most of them you’ll never hear from. You will win a few of them for usually small amounts, but in the situation you have laid out, you need ALL the help you can get. You might get lucky however & win 1 or 2 worth several thousand $$'s.</p></li>
<li><p>Look into doing some type of volunteer work for a year or so, like the Peace Corp, or any of several positions which the government offers … interns & such. Quite often your “payment” for this 1 or 2 years of volunteer work is a full, or close-to-full, scholarship at almost any school in the country.</p></li>
<li><p>Join the Nat’l Guard or one of the Reserve branches. This is definitely not for everyone, & definitely not a decision to be made lightly. But for about 5 months of initial training, plus a commitment to 4 or 6 years of 1-weekend-per-month & 2-weeks-per-year, you’ll pretty much get a free ride to any school in the country.</p></li>
<li><p>A similar alternative to the above is to join the ROTC program that most every college has. I’m not 100% sure how those work since I went straight into the military. But I’m pretty sure they will pay your entire tuition, in return for you serving 4 or 6 years in an Active or Reserve branch after graduation.</p></li>
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<p>I would NEVER discourage someone from attending college. the simple fact that this Spring will be my 3rd time in college should prove that. But I have been in the post-college situation already, and several years in the job market. So I know with 90% surety that borrowing the type of money you are talking about, at this point in your life, is going to cause you ALOT of trouble about 4-6 years down the road. I’ll stress that word again … ALOT!! That’s the only thing I try to discourage. Get your education most definitely … but don’t bite off more than you can chew, too quickly, in the process of doing that.</p>
<p>But there are other ways. It just takes time & work to find them all & to get them working for you. But with your very future relying on the decisions you are going to make within a year or so, it’s imperative that you put more work & research into this than any other thing you have yet to do in your life. Even if it means post-poning school for a semester, or even a YEAR, it’s better to do that & make sure all i’s are dotted, all t’s crossed, & everything else taken care of. </p>
<p>That’s why I’m no going back this FALL. With this third time around going to be all the way to a Masters, at a private school, I’m looking at some serious cash … more than I felt comfortable with. I KNEW I could get a significant portion of my tuition taken care of … I just didn’t know exactly where or how. So I decided to wait & use the entire Fall & Winter simply getting all of that stuff put together. Waiting that extra 6 months won’t make THAT much difference for my life itself. But it will make LOTS of difference in the financial position I’ll be in after graduating.</p>
<p>Good luck out there.</p>