<p>My daughter was accepted early into the class of 2013. She isn’t getting any money. I always felt that she needed to pay for part of her college education so that she’ll appreciate it more. I had to.</p>
<p>I graduated from MIT in 1979 and it was worth it. (Although it was the hardest thing I ever did in my life so far). I learned how to think and problem solve. The women I lived with were almost all class valedictorians who were great musicians and athletes. We all stayed up well into the night doing our problem sets. I loved walking into and around Boston and Cambridge. I got a great job after graduation. Ive been to many Alumni functions and sat through maybe a hundred MIT-Stanford New Enterprise forums on everything about starting, funding, running, and selling companies. </p>
<p>My daughter could go to a Berkeley or UCLA for half the cost, but I think that MIT is worth the extra money.</p>
<p>Parents dont have to pay it all. The cost should be split between the student and parent. The student can take out loans, work during the summer and school year, and appy for outside merit scholarships. I did.</p>
<p>Im expecting my daughter to get/earn/sign for:
$6,000 in merit scholarships (she will apply for 12-15 from lists our high school put together as well as from web searches)
$8,000 - $10,000 total in summer and semester jobs (probably UROP)
$8,000 - $10,000 in loans per year (less if she earns more)</p>
<p>Which makes her portion $26,000 (50% of $52,000)</p>
<p>This makes the parent portion $26,000. If the parents of the student who is not given any financial aid cant or wont pay at least this amount, then maybe the student should go elsewhere. However, the following few paragraphs explain how I came up with these numbers.</p>
<p>This is what I had to do in todays dollars (just divide by 7 to get 1975 dollars)
Loans: $8,750 (then:was $1,250, so ended up with $5,000 in loans)
Summer Work: $7,000
School Year Work: $7,000 (which would be $14,000 for the total for summer and school year. Back then it was $1,000, but I made $2,000 during the summer so I didn’t need to work, but I held lots of little jobs)
Parent’s Contribution: $7,000
MIT Grant: $21,000
Total: $50,750 </p>
<p>I was concerned the most about how much she could make during the school year and summer. For her to make the equivalent of what I made 30 years ago, she would have to make $14,000 total per year combining both summer and school year income. </p>
<p>The coach of the team she is going to join wrote to her saying that one student made $13,000 per semester doing UROP. Another student made $30,00 during the summer doing computer work. So now Im thinking that making the $8,000 - $10,000 total in my budget above is doable and reasonable.</p>
<p>Im also not worried about her paying back the loans. When I graduated in 1979, I had $5,000 in student loans and made $16,000/yr, so my loans were about 30% of my first yearly income. Within two years of graduating, I was making $24,000/yr. Within 4 years of graduating, I was making $48,000. I paid off my loans in 10 years and it never felt like a burden.</p>
<p>I don’t think $32,000 - $40,000 is too much for her to borrow when she may be making quite a bit (maybe close to $100K plus or minus $15,000) when she graduates and her income will go up quite a bit over the first few years of her working life.</p>
<p>Scholarships are so much easier to apply for now with the internet. So it would be a shame not to apply for a bunch.</p>
<p>So I always assumed that my daughter would work, take out loans and apply for scholarships and my husband and I would pay the rest.</p>
<p>I had to work and take out loans and so can she.</p>