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<p>That was my thinking, exactly, in stressing that UNC is an excellent financial safety (even though I recognize the OP would rather go away.) </p>
<p>Several OOS public institutions come to mind as appealing alternatives. Berkeley, Wisconsin, Michigan are top flagship universities where one can find the academic excellence of a Chicago, plus intellectual/arty/political “atmosphere”. The trouble is, I think they are unlikely to offer major merit aid to an OOS student. So are they worth paying a huge price premium over UNC? If UT does offer significant merit grants to OOS students, that would be a great choice. </p>
<p>I’m a Chicago alum; spent a year in Northfield MN where I got to know many Carleton people; Reed is one of my faves. To find other schools with similar qualities, a good place to start is the list in post #2 of the thread cited by ThoughtProvoking. Unfortunately, it dates to 2006. I think there have been some changes since that thread (else some of the info was incorrect even then). Macalester for example is listed in post #1 as a school that offers zero merit aid, but I know that’s not true (since my S was offered one last year). Post #2 is missing some schools. For example, Smith (currently USNWR #18), Colorado Colllege (currently #24) and Earlham (#62) all offer merit aid. </p>
<p>Grinnell, Macalester, Smith, Colorado College, and Earlham all offer merit grants and some of the atmospherics I’ve found appealing about Chicago, Reed, and Carleton. You will find significant numbers of very intellectual kids, arty kids, or save-the-world idealists, at all these schools. 2 are in cornfields but 3 are located in more interesting settings (Mac in the vibrant Twin Cities, Smith in a lively 5-college consortium community, CC in a pretty nice city at the foot of Pikes Peak). I’d be hard-pressed to say what distinguishes, say, Macalester students from Carleton students (maybe they’re a little more political). Tuition and fees at these private LACs typically are $35-40K. If you can land a $15-20K merit grant, the COA may be close enough to UNC range, and what they offer distinctive enough, to warrant taking on a little debt to attend. I think the chances for a full ride are small at these or any other schools more-or-less competitive with UNC for academics.</p>
<p>The “Colleges that Change Lives” site is another good resource. Reed is on it. The rest of the schools (other than Whitman, another very selective LAC) tend to be great choices for “late bloomers” (smart kids who were B students in HS). Many of them also are good choices for kids like the OP.</p>
<p>Personally, I think that of the original choices (reed, chicago, brown, carleton – plus UNC), the best prospects are Chicago or UNC. Chicago does offer significant merit grants; the OP sounds like a good Chicago candidate. Reed, Brown, and Carleton apparently do not (nor do the other Ivies or most of the NESCAC colleges). But Chicago aid is a little dicey. So I’d focus on finding Reed-like or Carleton-like LACs, unless someone can point out another tippy-top public university that offers generous merit grants to OOS students.</p>