<p>It was not meant to be insulting and you shouldnt take it that way. </p>
<p>I grew up in a household where my mother worked about the same if not more hours for the Russian govenment, and in Russia it was common practice to be babysat by your granparents during the day while your parents are at work, however in no respect is it appropriate parenting. </p>
<p>You can turn out fine, i am not saying you turn out poorly becuase parents are not around, i am a product of that type of household but i would never ever say that its ideal, or that its ok, or that people should strive for that to occur. In an ideal household there should be a full time parent, and mathematically when your working over 40hours a week you just are not a full time parent, period.... Even if you work midnight to six am, it takes its toll, and parenting becomes your secondary responsibility then. </p>
<p>People are disillusioned if they think that working 60 hours a week and making 200k compensates for the 4 hours every night they spend at home being a parent.</p>
<p>Doing it out of necessity is understandble and respectable,and like i said, i grew up in that type of house as well, however, it is not ideal, and no one who grew up like that should defend it or say that it is how they would want to raise their own children.</p>
<p>Doing it out of choice, is horrible in my opinion, i think its inappropriate for a woman to put her career before her family. So many women today refuse to realize that as much as they want equality with men, men can not have children, and biologically speaking, it will never be the mans responsiblity to nurture the child. I agree that women should have equal options with men, but women should realize that nature comes first, and by nature,, they are mothers and nurtutures. </p>
<p>really big off subject rant... sorry.</p>