<p>What many non-musicians fail to realize is that most music departments or schools are such supportive communities that they function in a similar way to a smaller school, regardless of the size of the whole institution. For this reason, it would not be necessary for your son to limit himself to an LAC. All music curriculums will give your son theory, music literature, applied music. The rest of the program will depend upon whether he is in a BA program, music education, church music, music therapy, music performance, music theory, music history, music industries, etc. That being said, which degree program your son could enter would depend upon his applied music level, i.e. his performance level, relative to the standards of the school. Some schools will accept a student as a performance major with a very low standard. Most schools only keep degree programs which actually graduate majors, so there is an internal need to accept and progress students through the programs. This is a disservice to students whose talent and skills are not representative of what the degree should represent. It does not sound like he is an advanced classical musician, but rather that he enjoys music and has some music background and performance experience. He might be admitted to a program in music industries or music education. If he makes wonderful progress in his applied music study, he might be encouraged to switch to or add the performance curriculum, maybe taking a double degree. </p>
<p>Oberlin is a conservatory, and unless he is a very advanced pianist, that is not likely to work out for him. I would suggest he check out music departments in your various state schools. It would be easier to get an idea of his level if he took an audition at one of those schools and talked to the professors in his applied area. Another option would be to have a conversation with his piano teacher, find out where they studied, etc. He/she would be in the best position to know his level of talent and what his musical strengths are. There are some music schools which are not classically oriented, and with his band experience, that might appeal to him. </p>
<p>Music is a good undergraduate degree to undertake. It requires discipline, talent, self confidence, theoretical thinking, cooperation, group assimilation, and much more. Many bachelor and master of music students I have known have gone on to careers in law, medicine, public affairs, industry, etc. It is a given that your son will be known to his professors, and they will be intimately involved in how he is progressing. His studio-mates will support him and cheer him. His fellow ensemble members will look out for him and protect him. You will know he is in a caring community. At the same time, if he gets off track, it will be known immediately by those around him, quite a nice safety net. </p>
<p>Good luck to your son, and to you, too.</p>