<p>Even though I got accepted to a few great (OOS) private schools so far, my parents are trying to convince me to attend my local rollings admissions public university (10 minutes away from my house). I have 89 hours of college credit, so I could graduate in 2 years (although 3 is probably what I'm going to aim for). Money is not the issue here. Although financial aid packages have not arrived, my EFC is 0, and the schools I got accepted to are all pretty generous. I also would have enough merit aid + stipend at the public school so that I wouldn't have to pay anything at all. A lot of what they are saying makes sense, but part of me is still very conflicted (I realize I still have more than a month to decide). What do you guys think?</p>
<p>My arguments:
- I want a "world-class education."
- I feel like I wouldn't have space to grow too much as a person because a lot of people from my high school would be attending that school. I would be limited to the way I was in high school (which isn't bad; but I feel like I would want to change and grow up a lot).
- Petty reason, but I also want to go to a school that my relatives in my home country would actually have heard of...
- I wouldn't be at the top of this particular public university. There are more prestigious programs that this university offers and I'm not in any of them (partly because I want the advantage of shortening my time there).
- I'm not 100% set on medicine (if I went to the public school, medicine would be my only option).</p>
<p>My parents' arguments:
- I'm aiming for an in-state medical school (cheaper, top 25 ranking). They (are obligated to) take a lot of people from that public school (which is actually an increasingly renowned school).
- Why would I waste 1-2 more years when I can finish college in 3 years?
- The professors at the public university are pretty much as notable in their fields as the ones at any private university. Also, the whole point of my undergrad career is to prepare me for med school, and I can do that perfectly fine at the public school.
- There's no reason why I shouldn't be 100% set on medicine. While law and medicine are both great professions, I have more science and research experience and lean heavily towards medicine. Why do I need more options? More options isn't necessarily good. I can't go wrong with medicine.
- Going far away for school is risky because I have to be on an airplane a lot and it's just very inconvenient and potentially life-threatening. Sure, I could get into a car accident in-state, but people don't generally die from car accidents (my mom has been in 3, and she hasn't even gotten hurt once), whereas if the plane crashes, I'm probably going to die. (I think the incidents with Malaysian Air and Korean Air are freaking them out. This is actually kind of a valid reason though lol.)
- Even though our EFC is 0, we would still have to pay SOMETHING and probably take on a bit of loans. Why would we do that when we can achieve the same things while paying practically nothing?</p>
<p>Sorry, this is really long. I feel like my parents' reasons are incredibly practical and reasonable, and it's not like they're not willing to listen to me at all and vice versa. I'm still seriously considering the public school. I just want to know what others think and make sure that I'm making the right decision.</p>