<p>Since they wonāt allow me to edit my above postā¦ I should perhaps better word my thoughts. All colleges attract students that are right for them. For some, a competitive highly academic choice is the best (Ivy or similar). Those students would feel right at home at such a school and will get a good education assuming they match appropriate schools with their major, etc. Competitive schools are even possibly the best when one wants to have a future in competitive types of research within different departments - or high level academia (but I suspect top graduate school counts for more than undergrad).</p>
<p>However, not all students are best in a competitive atmosphere even if they have the grades to get there. In the same vein, competitive atmospheres do not prepare people well for all types of jobs. (And, all jobs are āreal worldā - pardon the unintended insult above - it was one thing I wanted to edit now that Iām at work, but canāt. Our worlds differ, but all are real - and important.)</p>
<p>All students (and parents) should work to find the best match for them. A wrong match seldom turns out well.</p>
<p>Another main thought to consider is finances. Allow me to share info Iāve gleaned from folks working in majors my sons are considering (BTDT types)ā¦ esp the medical research one as that one has been easier to figure outā¦ </p>
<p>A top student going to a ālesserā (NOT low) ranked school for undergrad has great opportunities for getting a bit of merit aid - meaning less debt at graduation. Graduate schools look for diversity in their ranks. They look for top students from good schools as much - if not more - than they look for average students at top schools. For medical research, there are also often stipends involved. If one chooses wisely, they can graduate with little to no debt and have a great future. If one wants ātop name brand only,ā they will get a similar education, BUT have years of paying it off since those schools offer little to no merit aid.</p>
<p>For those with less income, consider top schools as well as slightly under top as both offer need aid. One can be surprised at what is offered. For those of us who donāt make the āless incomeā cut, they need to choose whether the price paid for the name of an undergrad school is worth the cost. Most feel it is not - actually, ALL of those Iāve personally spoken to have said it is not. The few that disagree have been on forums.</p>
<p>Andā¦ as stated beforeā¦ this in no way implies that one gets an equal education in every major at every school. Look for the average SAT/ACT scores at a school and then consider what the average will be in ones chosen major (music will differ from engineering but all contribute to the overall average). People may SAY testing doesnāt tell the story, but Iāve yet to see a student that tests well and does poorly academically. Teachers can do more with brighter students. No one denies that and itās important to remember. My goal for my own students is to have them in the top quarter to top third where they go - BUT not so far top that they are out of their league. The worst place to be is in the bottom 25% - or even bottom 50% (IMO).</p>
<p>To each our own.</p>
<p>And as for Christian or notā¦ againā¦ that needs to reflect the desires of the student and their major. My oldest needs a Christian school. My middle son will be open to either. I graduated from a secular school and felt Christian groups were greatā¦ but am open to allowing either for my sons based on their desires and needs.</p>