<p>omzac, its my sincere pleasure. I fully understand the dilemma. Believe me. We came down to three choices in 07 and all three had basically the same money involved! Ugh! And it also involved personal drama with friends. Not easy. She pulled the trigger on Fordham on the last day. Freshman year was rough…really rough adjusting to New York and all the college stress. Almost pulled her…but she persevered, pulled up her socks and re-energized. Finished top of her class at Fordham (who ranks students btw.) </p>
<p>Never looked back. I do understand the prestige thing. Its a powerful allure. But important to consider all the options and really try hard to find out where he will perform the best, be happiest and perhaps make the best long term decision whether he goes to medical school or not. Pre Med is very stressful whereever you attend. I remember the PreMed kids we met at WashU Stl…on tour…freaked us out how utterly freaked they were. So comfort and happiness are important. </p>
<p>This also is not a rural setting, like Kenyon or Bucknell. Its New York. New York has its wonderment, but also its hyperness and intensity. Fordham is a bit of an oasis on campus at Rose Hill, but its still there. Washington DC has another level of intensity and competitiveness…and class structure. </p>
<p>I am biased to be certain. We love Fordham dearly. But we also know some will go elsewhere, and to them we say “good luck and God’s speed.”</p>