Agree with 20transfer20 100%
Your question strikes a chord with me for personal reasons that I won’t go into.
A few thoughts:
Georgetown is an excellent school. I did not attend, but still have some personal knowledge of the place (friends and colleagues who did). It is very pre-professional. Students tend to choose their majors and often their extracurricular activities as part of a “master plan” of sorts. That’s not necessarily a bad thing, and as much as it pains me to say this, undergraduates these days are consumers who have to weigh return on investment carefully.
Here’s the thing that most people won’t come out and actually say: there is nothing special or elite about pre-professional education. That’s why you can’t major in business or accounting at Princeton (you can at Georgetown). Among colleges where pre-professionalism is the norm, Georgetown probably is at the very top. However, you frankly don’t sound like someone who’s looking to do that. If you told me that you absolutely want to be a Foreign Service Officer, then maybe it wouldn’t be crazy to choose Georgetown SFS over HYP (but I personally think it would still be a mistake).
Another difference between HYP and Georgetown is a relatively small, but very special, cohort of students who attend HYP. Georgetown is full of smart kids, many of them are extremely smart, and obviously there is overlap with HYP in GPA, SAT’s, etc. Not everyone at HYP is a genius. However, the kind of students who major in mathematics at Princeton, or classics at Harvard, or humanities at Yale do not attend Georgetown. I am not and never will be on that level of brilliance, but there are advantages to getting to know these extremely rare, gifted people. I learned that during my post-doc training at Yale.
As far as the “fit” goes, I can definitely identify with being from a place where people don’t normally attend these schools. I also grew up in a very traditional American family and community. Don’t be insecure about who you are, but recognize that it’s a good thing to feel a bit uncomfortable in college. That doesn’t mean you should attend a school where you’ll be miserable, but a school that seems like a good fit now may not prove to be a good in a few years.
Now this is just opinion, but over my adult life I’ve observed the following:
- It’s not difficult to find Harvard College alums who say “I hated Harvard.” The unifying thread seems to be institutional arrogance and faculty indifference to undergraduates.
- Most Princeton alums love the place. However, there is a small cohort of students/alums who absolutely hate it. They usually speak disdainfully of the eating clubs, extremely preppy vibe, and beautiful people culture. It is difficult for me to imagine that these individuals would have loved Georgetown.
- It’s very uncommon to find a Yale College alum who speaks negatively of the experience. The environment is a very unique blend of staunch traditionalism and the avante garde. Think very carefully before you turn it down.
Either way you go, congrats on the wonderful achievement of getting these acceptance letters!