Im glad you decided to become 1% of the process.
I am going to now solve this for you.
He needs to be happy.
All these threads are lost in the weeds with rankings etc.
IT really is a hodge podge of schools as someone said, chosen mostly as random big names, rankings, bragging rights, who knows.
You are losing the forest for the trees.
Go visit, he will know.
My daughter visited UPenn and hated it - too urban, wouldn’t even get out of the car, hated UVA , Ivy types seemed to preppy and serious, I had a friend visit cornell and everyone looked sad, then visited Penn State and was in instant love. Everyone was happy. Who cares about the US News rankings. I would put this site away and let him pick where he loves. Is GT stressful, cutthroat? Sounds like it.
It seems you are looking for validation that Penn State is ok. Like how you responded to whirl. You are worried that all the other families of the kids he is competing with in high school(don’t say he isn’t you know all of their stats and grades and applications from the other threads which is creepy lol) will look down on Penn State. Well-- WHO CARES!!! Penn STATE is OK. It is. Schreyer is selective and validates what he has done. 10000000%%$%$ Only 8% that apply actually matriculate. It is safe. GT is in Atlanta with crime. Does he like big cities? Sounds like he’s from a rural area. Penn State- Its fun. Its well rounded. He can be a complete person. He can thrive. He can focus his honors on what he is passionate about. He will 100% be happy. It is closer to home. He will be recruited closer to home. He will get a better GPA. He will be positioned for medical school. They even have a combined assured acceptance program with Hershey, closer to home, if he wants assurance. Given his stats, he can get in. That might even be easier than trying to get into med school with GT. And if he becomes a doctor NOBODY cares where you went to college or even medical school, when hired, they look at residency, after that, it is experience, skill and personality. Georgia Tech isn’t going to make him a good doctor, or a good BME job. He will. He needs to shine, be the best at what he does, and interact with people. Penn State has the largest alumni network in the world. He will be noticed. If he is a good person(like you said- God, County, Family, Academic, Athetics, Arts) he will succeed. Schreyer will give him the opportunity. Schreyer also gives him the possibility of being in a combined masters engineering program. They just built an 88 million dollar engineering building. Thier football team is going to compete for #1 in the country next year. Tell me why he wants to go to GT? All I see is ranked #2 , ranked #4…I can think of 10000000 reasons why PSU will give your son exactly what he needs, not only in his career but to grow as a person. Dance Marathon, Lion ambassadors, fraternities, all under the pretenses of a honors college within a college that caters to the best of the best. He was given the golden ticket of schreyer acceptance people dream of, its harder than an IVY to get in—300 matriculate!!! So tell all the people you are worried about impressing why. Read what Sevmom said. Husband went to CMU, wishes he went to PSU. Its about the college experience. If he visits GT, and he falls in love - fine. But my instincts tell me you want PSU, you just want someone to say its ok for a valadictorian to go there. It is. Plus with the Schreyer Scholarship, he is going for 1/2 the cost. I have tried to hold back but this is a no brainer for me. If he is cut throat and competitive and wants that fine - but you said he isn’t - and you aren’t - and he didn’t apply to Ivys. You should be so proud of this kids, and Schreyer meets all of his needs and more. Its not a risk. To me - its not even a question. You were considering VT? WHY!!! PSU is just as good and has all of the above at 1/2 the cost. I think you are worried PSU is common. Its close to your home and everybody goes there. Well, Schreyer is different and it will position him well for either med school or engineering grad school. Save the money for that. You said money not an issue, but you do bring it up as a way to eliminate. Use it here.
Bottom line- visit GT and PSU. Spend the night. Immerse yourselves. Go when its warm. Go to a game. Walk around town on a Saturday night. Throw US NEWS AND WORLD REPORT AWAY. And let him decide and don’t look back.
I think I know where he will choose.
This came from the heart, I mean no offense, I want what is best for your son, just like you do.
I also want the other posters on here to tell me why I’m wrong. Debate me. Tell me why GT, Case Western, CMU will somehow position him better than Schreyers? I want to hear it. Then you will have all you need to guide him. Both sides. I know people that would give their arm to be in Schreyers. The best of the best. RPI? UIUC? Cornell? - not the same college experience. What does he want? What does he want to experience? does he want to go to RPI and say US news ranks them high due to publications, or does he want to be part of the celebrations every saturday and get an elite education at the same time at a school with the largest alumni network in the world?