<p>It’s true that a person creates his/her own social circle. However, remember how you created your own social circle. Think about the things you may have in common and the things you don’t have in common with your friends. It’s great to have such a great attitude. However, I do think there is a better chance of someone that is a) mormon b) white to create a lively social network than someone that isn’t. </p>
<p>I’m not Mormon, I’m not white, and I don’t have a specific race. Let’s take the example of studying for tests. People can choose to study with whomever they want. But then… why oh why do Korean students congregate to one spot. Why do I see a group of kids from Nepal walking in a pack down the hall. Why is it that athletes typically congregate together? Will you find it easy to create rapport and comfort easily with a group of individuals who cannot be more different than yourself?</p>
<p>How about being ignored? Or how about being stereotyped? Have I encountered stereotypes about Muslims, Blacks, Asians, and Latinos? Of course. Does it happen out in the open? Overt discrimination hardly happens, but discrimination definitely exists. Why is it that when I tell people I’m an American, they smirk or laugh and perhaps disagree? Why is it that you’ll find very little interracial mingling even between Mormons? </p>
<p>Can you overcome these things? You should ask yourself these questions. I made the mistake of coming to BYU solely based on academics and cost. My decision shouldn’t have been that simple, and I’m just giving you what I perceive as reality. </p>
<p>I’ve visited my friends university before a few times, and I’ve stayed over a few times as well. I had a great time hanging with friends of friends. Now that I think about it… it was super fun. We played handball, and played video games. We tried habanero chili peppers…lol that was crazy. All in all, it was normal. I wasn’t an inferior being. </p>
<p>Also, I’m an American, and I can honestly say that I fair very well compared to most international students excluding those from Europe and Australia.</p>