@FutureCadet Look at your in state flagship program first, and visit that program to see what it offers.
Have you run net price calculators and do you qualify for any financial aid at Brown, MIT etc?
Most private east coast highly ranked schools offer zero merit. Many upper middle class families pay the full price
at both Brown and MIT if they have little debt, so a mortgage, and a combined income over $170K. Do the net price calculators, and as long as you family does not own a business, they should give you an idea. If your family own a business with variable income, its very very difficult to predict financial aid.
Case Western Reserve U offers solid merit, and open door policy to study humanities and social sciences and fine engineering education. The merit packages there offer about $125K over four years, and you can apply for additional merit scholarships for junior and senior year from the Case alumni group. The cost will still come in at $40K a year, with scholarships, unless you have financial need. Case will stack merit and financial aid, but middle income families with NO financial need, can still get a great deal.
Alabama, U of Oklahoma, U of Tulsa, and U of Texas Dallas all offer better merit and a lower sticker price than Case Western.
Purdue in Indiana offers $10K per year OOS scholarships.
U of Utah allows students to declare residency after one summer in Utah, after freshman year, and changing
your drivers license and voter registration to Utah. So you get in state tuition in year 2, 3 and 4.
Gatech offers absolutely NO financial aid to OOS and only about 20 merit awards, so you have to pay full price,
but that price is $80K less than MIT and Brown over four years.
So it all depends on your exact financial situation, how much debt your family carries, how expensive your primary residence is, how much your family owes on the mortgage, how much they saved for college for you, and how much salary they make annually. The net price calculators should help you decide if you qualify for financial aid.