Hi all! Loving this forum so much!
Totally agree, vibe of the orchestra is super important. She’s been in certain orchestras where the vibe just wasn’t there harp wise - and that was the “break it.” It can be especially hard with harp, frankly.
Also “clicking” or not with the harp instructor is important. Though her local instructor loves her like a daughter and would continue lessons via facetime or some such. So the point re: she can join the orchestra lots of places if she doesn’t need instruction is a goooood point. (And Harvard is her first choice.)
Honestly her top priority is academics. The harp / orchestra component is a side dish, albeit an important one.
One tricky component is that we may be living in Europe for her 11th and possibly 12th grades. So I’m trying to make the most out of this very last minute 10th grade East Coast visit over Thanksgiving timeframe. Tours we could have waited on might need to happen sooner because, well, we’re still in the country.
Again, she’s in 10th grade now. At Stanford Online High School. 4.0+ unweighted. Top scores.
So - week prior to Thanksgiving - we’re heading to Boston for about a week. Right now she’s touring Harvard and MIT, has events via MIT and Stanford while there. Plenty of time in Boston - maybe we look at Wellesley or Brandeis?
We’re heading north to Maine to visit dear family friends for the actual holiday. I’m thinking maybe Bowdoin?
Then heading south to Connecticut so both my kids can look at Choate (I’m an alum) with a day or two down that direction. That’s of course a completely different discussion.
Honestly my main goal is after she sees Choate and falls in love with it, I need to be able to say: “yes but you can have a similar experience in college in just a couple of years at awesome place X, Y, or Z. In the meantime come to EU with us for a year or two.”
Yale is super close to Choate, so that’s an easy add on. Do we try to squeeze in a Smith or Amherst or Williams? Or?..
Thanks again, all. We certainly appreciate it over here in our household.