<p>I think bringing up views of a school that come from studies and actual experiences of the schools students is completely legitimate. We shouldnt claim it is bashing just because the information may be negative. And I dont think we should think it is awful when the information is positive either. Harvard and Princeton are just schools, not people. We should be able to talk about their good or bad points without feeling obligated to talk about both.</p>
<p>What I am looking for is a way to legitimately answer the concerns that have been raised about Harvard by Harvard itself. Simply dismissing this stuff as anti-Harvard still leaves the concerns on the table. If I cant convince myself that no real problem exists, then I am probably going to have to bring up the bad Harvard stuff every year for the next twelve years to try to help my kids see what I think is the truth about the school.</p>
<p>It is fairly easy to point out the important stuff about most schools. But with Harvard, kids tend to nurse their fantasies so much that mentioning anything bad causes anger. In my home I am finding I have to combat this with lots of dosages of reality, page after page of information. I did this with my first kid, and now it seems I am going to have to do it with the next! What I want is to find that the concerns I have about Harvard are unfounded. Unfortunately, I am finding that Harvard leaders and students are verifying that my concerns are warranted.</p>
<p>On one student review site where the reviews are checked for legitimacy, almost half of the Harvard student reviews were bitterly negative. And the neutral reviews were almost as bad as the negative reviews. I think Princeton had only 5 negative reviews in the whole batch. I found similar patterns elsewhere, with one study putting Harvard almost dead last in terms of student satisfaction. What I found most telling was that even Harvards POSITIVE reviews acknowledged the same problems that the negative reviews mentioned so bitterly. Here is a sampling of the just the positive reviews, with the problem indicators in bold:</p>
<p>--Harvard is great. **A lot of students feel negatively about it* because they think that there is something "better" out there. If you actually speak with members of the student body, many of them left and came back because they realized that other schools weren't any better off socially, the financial aid was terrible, and that getting wasted every night really doesn't make the college experience any better.*</p>
<p>--Overall, I'm incredibly happy with Harvard. **I think that there are currently a few problems with the academics--which, of course, are being ironed out--but that these problems aren't as **big as some people make them out to be.</p>
<p>It seems to me that as a parent I have a duty to warn my kids about an environment that threatens what I think the whole point of school should be. It is not bashing the school to point out this stuff. And it is entirely inappropriate to ONLY say good things about another school when your kid is looking to have a school that could be a real problem. Doing such a thing is like a parent ONLY telling their teenage daughter about how nice the boy next door is, when the kid has eyes for a forty year-old chain smoking tattooed homeless drunk in the city.</p>
<p>The next positive reviews on the site I mentioned, edited for brevity, and with problem indicators in bold:</p>
<p>I have been at Harvard for 3 years and I am looking forward to another fantastic year before graduating. I love the campus, the students and the city it's in. I really expected to have to look after myself here and I was not wrong in that aspect. The college expects you to take the initiative and get things done. After all, it's our academic lives, **not theirs
As for the profs, they can be hard to get.* But they generally are the best in their fields and they do care a lot of their work. Given that their primary goal is to further the boundaries of human knowledge, it is not unusual to find them lacking in their role as teachers
*</p>
<p>I reject this kids view of his professors that teaching is not their education. Yet, I dont worry about this one for my own kids because they are intense about learning and are used to teaching themselves. But I also think learning is best when the learned readily seek to share what they know with others so that the unlearned can join them in the search for answers to the big questions in our world. I want my kids to have an environment where students are intellectually coming alive in ways they didnt know existed. In this way, my kids get the maximum benefit possible. You all know what its like to find something new and great for the first time. It is explosive! You want to work on it all day and into the night. And you want to sit up late talking about it with others. You want to knock on your friends doors to have lunch or dinner so you can both argue about it, or share something about it. What I want for my kids is an environment where this kind of thing is happening as much as possible. I get the impression that this sort of thing is not how Harvard works.</p>
<p>I dont mean to tell Harvard how to run its business. The only thing I care about is getting the facts I need to help my kids make informed choices about the schools they want to chase. I want my kids to enjoy a scholarly community of students and professors. So I dont think Harvard is a good fit for us.</p>
<p>The next few positive reviews ALL deal with branding, with little or no mention of anything concerning the life of the school. They were all like this:</p>
<p>I had a liberal arts education and never got any graduate degree. I was lucky to have chosen the field of banking in 1983
. Having graduated from a brand name school certainly helped to open some doors in the first few years.</p>
<p>Almost all of the remaining positive reviews have indicators that acknowledge problems and that, when you consider them with the well published issues at Harvard, suggest to me the school has serious issues with its undergraduate educational culture. Here is yet another:</p>
<p>I don't know if the others on this site are just having bad experiences of what. Harvard is NOT too expensive if you are compare it to other colleges
As far as the education, you can NOT get a better one
The only negative thing about Harvard is that **it is SOOOOO competitive. I think these kids were absent the days we learned about group learning and group projects in middle school. They just don't want to have it. It is often said* that professors cannot assign group problem sets because they students will complain so much that they never have time to meet. This probably is the case, but our workload is insane. But seriously, working together is a good thing sometimes.*</p>
<p>And here is a neutral comment by a Harvard alumnus:</p>
<p>Harvard is a finishing school for the upper middle class and those who wish to enter the upper middle class. The majority of students come here with a firm idea of what they want to accomplish. Though Harvard does try to create a more liberal arts education with its core program, its students are really driven to look for certain things that would advance their careers. **Forget about faculty interaction, most of the popular classes are taught by graduate students. Sometimes the teaching is not competent* but exceptional results are still expected and often achieved. This illustrates the dynamic that student quality at Harvard is high but the administration takes it too much for granted as a result and can get away with doing very little to support them. However, there is a very high concentration of exceptional individuals that you're not going to meet anywhere else -- roughly 10% of the student population. It makes up for the experience somewhat but Harvard was still in many ways, a disappointment. It is a great school if you are interested in taking another step beyond prep school into your father's business. Otherwise a smaller liberal arts school without dominating, and wealthy, graduate schools (the medical school, gilded in ostentatious marble, for instance), is a better choice for actual learning.*</p>
<p>The Harvard name brand is great. I dont think anyone can seriously argue against this. But I think as the comment above suggests, that name comes in large part from Harvards serious investment in its graduate schools. I also think it comes from a onetime Hollywood infatuation with those graduate schools.</p>
<p>But think about this. Harvard people here are being forced to argue all over cc (and on other sites) in favor of Harvard against the proponents of the very tiny Princeton. That is just amazing! Princeton is hanging tough against Harvard despite Harvards big professional schools and Hollywood branding.</p>
<p>How can this be? Is it because of Princetons big professional schools? Obviously not. Is it because Hollywood has had an infatuation with Princeton? Obviously not. So then how is it that this small school in Jersey can actually hold its own against the relatively gigantic school in Boston? The answer is clear. Princeton is standing tough against Harvard mostly on the quality of its undergraduate education product.</p>
<p>After reading as much as I can about schools, I am pushing Princeton (and one other school in CT :) which seems to be a mix of the great things about Harvard and Princeton) to all of my kids when it comes to their undergraduate careers. I just dont think Princeton has any true rival here. If Princeton ever decides to build law, business, and medicine programs using the same vision it has followed for undergraduate education, the school will be absolutely untouchable across the board.</p>