<p>Hi!</p>
<p>I was accepted to Yale SCEA and am now choosing between Yale, Stanford, Harvard, Princeton, Brown, and Dartmouth '18. I think I am mostly interested in attending one of the first two for a variety of reasons, particularly the combination of top-tier academics alongside social scenes that other top-tier schools seem unable to match.</p>
<p>My question (since this is on the Harvard forum, I'm also posting on other forums) - Why Harvard over the others?</p>
<p>An answer like "because it's Harvard" is exactly the kind of thing that makes me not want to go there. Even just the people in the Facebook group - seemingly more pretentious, more arrogant, and less friendly than the people in some of the other groups. Dartmouth and Brown are more expensive and I can't imagine myself choosing them over the others. The atmospheres of Harvard/Princeton seem very competitive, not laid-back, not social, etc., which turns me off to both of them.</p>
<p>A couple of things about me:</p>
<p>I live in Connecticut, which would make going to school in the northeast much easier. I love California however and would consider myself to be more "chill" in terms of exhibiting a west coast vibe. I may like to end up on the west coast at some point in my life. My girlfriend will be in high school still (CT) and so going to Stanford would make the relationship extremely difficult. My mom also wants me to stay close. I like having access to a city, but don't mind not being directly in one. Boston is great, and I have always grown up as a Red Sox and the Celtics fan. Yale and Stanford are close to New York and San Fran, respectively, though, and I find each of those cities to be more interesting.</p>
<p>Princeton gave excellent financial aid, Harvard close behind, Stanford's is not great, and I have yet to hear back from Yale. I'm hoping some matching will be done.</p>
<p>I am interested in science/technology stuff (maybe like physics or green energy or something), although I very well might end up going into business/finance. I enjoy the arts immensely - going to concerts, seeing plays, and just generally associating with people interested in these things. I will participate in a cappella in college. I enjoy anything outdoors like skiing and hiking. I enjoy watching sports as well as playing sports recreationally (think intramural). I'm not sure if I plan on being involved in Greek life, but I definitely want to be in a social environment. I also very much value a community atmosphere--I think Stanford and Yale each offer these in different ways. Yale the residential colleges (which I love), Stanford the "bubble" of campus and the unifying sports scene.</p>
<p>I understand this is all just splitting hairs, but I still would be incredibly grateful for any input.</p>
<p>Thank y'all in advance!</p>