Has anyone eagerly gone with their college host only to find they were obviously a third wheel because of “prior intimate commitments” your host made?
OMG!
Can’t say so, no, but they were very open about their sexual escapades during their time at Wooster!
No, but that would certainly lead me to cross that college off my list if it had happened to me. New admits weekends are pretty much a dog-and-pony show to sell the university to the admitted students. So if this is the “best” host the university could find for me, it does not speak much for the uni, and even less for the host.
People do what they do and its probably a mistake to imagine that it couldn’t possibly happen at a school you hold near and dear.
Normally, this isn’t the kind of thing I have any interest in posting, but, it has come up twice in the last few weeks.
That happened to my older daughter a number of years back. She spent the bulk of the night on a sofa in the lounge area. She wasn’t sure where to turn to for a safer place and was totally miserable. Suffice it to say, that schools was quickly crossed off the list.
My younger daughter was woken up from a restless sleep on a dorm floor at a west coast Admit weekend overnight, when her host initiated a phone call to her boyfriend in Hawaii at 3:00 am. Apparently he got off work at midnight (Hawaiian time) and the host used an alarm clock to wake herself up to talk to him. Unfortunately, they proceeded to fight (loudly) about her suspicions that he’d been looking at another girl, for the next 2.5 hours. My D said that the other roommate slept through it all, so we assumed this happened regularly.