<p>“Your parents most definitely have control over what numbers they put on their return.”</p>
<p>By “they” I meant the student. The student has no control over what their parents do on their taxes. Why should they be punished for the sins of their parents?</p>
<p>“No reputable accountant is going to put two different numbers as alimony paid and received.”</p>
<p>Of course, but my parents mostly don’t talk to each other and use different accountants.</p>
<p>“The IRS will eventually match it, and they do care.”</p>
<p>My parents have been doing this since 2005, and they haven’t heard a peep from the IRS. I mean, really… is the IRS going to take the trouble to audit them over a lousy few thousand bucks in deductions, amounting to maybe a $500 difference in taxes paid?</p>
<p>“I don’t know why you expected your mother to be the one to change her return.”</p>
<p>Because hers was, in fact, wrong (so far as I and the CPA can tell). According to IRS Publication 18 ([Publication</a> 17 (2009), Your Federal Income Tax](<a href=“Publication 17 (2022), Your Federal Income Tax | Internal Revenue Service):%5DPublication”>Publication 17 (2022), Your Federal Income Tax | Internal Revenue Service):)</p>
<p>“Life insurance premiums. Alimony includes premiums you must pay under your divorce or separation instrument for insurance on your life to the extent your spouse owns the policy.”</p>
<p>“The reality is that Yale considers the income and assets of BOTH parents when determining the awarding of financial aid.”</p>
<p>Yes, I know that. I have no problem with me counting my father’s income and assets. I DO have a problem (I think justifiably so) with them denying ALL aid whatsoever because of a minor discrepancy on a form.</p>
<p>“For Yale to offer you NO financial aid, either that inconsistency was very significant in dollar amounts OR your dad’s income/assets reporting on the Profile non-custodial parent form went up substantially.”</p>
<p>The inconsistency was a few thousand dollars (15% of alimony paid, and my parents are middle-class), so I wouldn’t call it “significant”. I have personally seen my dad’s tax returns and noncustodial PROFILE, and can assure you that the second isn’t the case either.</p>
<p>“In any event, I agree with the poster who says the IRS DOES care…and therefore so should the colleges.”</p>
<p>To repeat what I said earlier: My parents have been doing this since 2005 and the IRS hasn’t said anything to either of them. The IRS is not going to audit them over a few hundred dollars in taxes. </p>
<p>"Did your parents get divorced THIS year? If not, was this the same “inconsistency” on past tax returns? You should check to see if this is the case. "</p>
<p>No, my parents separated in 2003 and got divorced several years later. Yes, the inconsistency in their returns goes back to 2005. Yale didn’t care last year, but now they do for some reason, I don’t know why.</p>
<p>“If the combined income of your two parents exceeds a certain amount, you would not get a lot of aid from Yale regardless. I’m wondering if this is the case.”</p>
<p>It is not. My parents are middle-class, and last year I paid less than 30% of Yale’s nominal prices. As I said, me and my dad couldn’t possibly come up with the $100,000 to finish my education without aid- we simply don’t have the money.</p>
<p>“It would seem that the IRS should have made the final decision as to how this part of alimony should be handled - either with the mom changing her return or the dad.”</p>
<p>I agree, but the IRS is extremely slow on such things, and by the time they resolved it I would already have been forced to leave Yale.</p>
<p>"It does seem a bit odd…it sounds like the dad has to pay the life insurance premiums (thru his job maybe???), and the mom doesn’t feel that that is “income” to her. "</p>
<p>That’s correct.</p>
<p>"Sounds like a deal could have been made with that - such as the dad writing the check for that amount? If the mom is lowish income and the premiums are - say - 1200 a year - her taxable amount may have been very little. Certainly not high enough to forgo Yale aid. "</p>
<p>True, but you overestimate the reasonableness of my parents. My mom is a young-earth creationist and has been diagnosed as mentally ill by a local psychiatrist.</p>
<p>"Plus what happened the first two years this kid was in college. Are the parents NEWLY divorced? "</p>
<p>No, they aren’t. The same discrepancy was there last year and Yale didn’t care. I don’t know why either.</p>
<p>Also, why do you refer to me as “kid”? I am a legal adult. I live on my own. I hold down a middle-class job during the summer. I run a website with 10,000 or so unique visitors a day in my spare time, and also do professional writing and journalism for a few different organizations. My mom (my custodial parent) contributes not one cent to my education or living expenses, and although some of my other relatives do chip in, I could pay for everything without any help from anyone if I had to. Is everyone in college just automatically a “kid”, regardless of how mature they are?</p>