<p>Hello, everyone. I recently graduated from a high school in Maryland and decided to enroll in University of Maryland at College Park's honors program. During the selection process, I applied to the following schools:</p>
<p>U of MD at CP - Accepted
Virginia Tech - Accepted
American U - Accepted
U of VA - Accepted
Carnegie Mellon U - Accepted
Cornell U - Waitlisted
Amherst College - Waitlisted
MIT - Denied</p>
<p>During the application process, I felt very strongly about attending a top-tier school. I regarded College Park, Virginia Tech, and American as my "safety" schools, UVA and Carnegie Mellon as "good match" schools, and Cornell, Amherst, and MIT as "reach" schools. Surprisingly, my predictions were extremely accurate.</p>
<p>At my public high school, I felt mildly trapped by my surroundings and peers. I felt as if I was hardly being challenged, even when I took AP classes. Of course, there were a few teachers that inspired and tried to challenge me, but they were easily the minority. I promised myself that I would go to an excellent school with great peers to challenge and academically empower me.</p>
<p>Last October, I visited Carnegie Mellon and fell in love with it. I had previously desired to go to MIT, but after visiting Carnegie, I knew it was the college for me (which is a good thing to, seeing as MIT rejected me). The acceptance letter came and I was ecstatic! It seemed that all my hard work in high school had paid off.</p>
<p>My financial aid report, however, was not as uplifting. I barely missed the mark for qualifying for need-based aid although I was offered a merit scholarship to Carnegie for about 6k a year. At a school that estimates 52k a year, this was barely helpful. My parents and I worked through the finances, and in order to attend Carnegie I would have to take out roughly 20k a year in loans, not including a few smaller loans my parents may have had to take out further down the road.</p>
<p>I didn't like UVA (I thought everyone there was rather snooty, although it's an amazing school) and I passed on American and VTech. I received a little more than half a ride to College Park, and my parents could easily afford the other half w/o anyone having to take out loans. My parents were willing to spend 20k a year on my education to go to Carnegie, and they said that if I went to College Park, I could put any extra money not used by my decision to make a dent in the cost of grad school (something that is extremely important to me and I always desired to do).</p>
<p>I visited College Park, and deemed it livable. I wouldn't be nearly as happy there as I would at Carnegie Mellon, but it would be significantly cheaper and I would graduate with no debt. That final month of deciding was pure hell. I wrestled with the fact of going to Carnegie and possibly getting a fellowship to pay for grad school (where it is much more likely to attain such funds) vs going to Maryland and having to pay for grad school. I also considered the types of people at each school and could tell right away I would benefit from the peer atmosphere at Carnegie. But was it worth so much extra money?</p>
<p>My parents were biased in the decision. They wanted me to go to College Park. They said that with the turn in the economy my financial safety was by no means guaranteed and that the safest choice was to go to College Park. In the end, I decided to go to College Park.</p>
<p>Now, however, about a month and a half after making that decision, I feel as if I have made a horrible mistake. The more I hear about Carnegie the more I love it. The more I read online about the benefits of a top-tier education, the more upset I am about my decision. The prestige of the school I attend is important to me, and I feel that I would benefit from the confidence boost and peer interactions provided by a school such as Carnegie.</p>
<p>Not a day goes by that I haven't had second thoughts about my decision. I feel as if I have made a grave mistake. Several of my friends that shared my high school feeling of being trapped are going to great schools like Johns Hopkins (mainly off of an excellent financial need award) w/o me and I feel like I'm going to repeat the four years of high school where I was not challenged or stimulated all over again in college. I'm one of those students that loves learning for the sake of learning. I've had two breakdowns already about my decision and I don't know how to proceed.</p>
<p>Should I just stay at College Park? Should I try and transfer after my first semester/year (even though I would feel out of place at a new college not having been there since the beginning)? And even then transferring looks more at your college record rather than high school record, so have I drastically hurt my chances of ever going to a top-tier school as an undergrad? Should I just stick it out at College Park, even though I really would hate to go through another four years unchallenged? Or am I just freaking out over nothing, because College Park's honors program is just as good and contains just as much peer stimulation as a school like Carnegie?</p>
<p>Any advice as to what I should do would be greatly appreciated . . . but thanks for just reading my rant if you've gotten this far.</p>