have you ever been attracted to a member of the same sex

<p>that you find attractive. No, i'm not gay.</p>

<p>I'll be the first brave soul to post to this topic...</p>

<p>To plainly answer your question, no....not in a sexual sense, but in an aesthetic sense, yes.</p>

<p>I have found features on a girl to be attractive...like wow that girl has nice legs...or wow she has a nice smile...I have never been like "ohhh let me get some of that" with another girl.</p>

<p>I guess you could call it a type of admiration...</p>

<p>Absolutely. There are a few people in the world who are so gorgeous that you can't help but want to gawk at them. I, too, am absolutely hetero, but I once had an aquaintance so beautiful and with such a magnetic personality that I found myself staring at her at random times. Had no interest in her sexually. It was more like most people's attraction to celebrities. I have no idea how the guys around her got any work done. The irony is that I didn't particularly like her!</p>

<p>lesbians are awesome but gay men don't seem to have the same appeal.</p>

<p>that happened to me this past summer...our county counselor at girls' state was very, very pretty, and she was the kindest person I had ever met. For the first couple days I was wondering whether I was bisexual because I found myself trying to attract her attention everytime I saw her, but like shaddix said, it really gave way to intense admiration...she basically became one of my role models :)</p>

<p>what shaddix and sue22 (and MissMichelle) said...
i mean, there are some girls who are just really good-looking! like me lol jkkk</p>

<p>I think girls have a much easier time saying "yes, I find other girls attractive" even if they're not lesbians, than guys. Do guys just not want to admit it or is it just not part of their thinking to find other guys attractive? Like sometimes I'll ask my brothers if a guy that they know or something is hot and they'll just be like "i dont know", while I definitely can find other girls attractive, not sexually though.</p>

<p>True sapphire...just a whole different set of rules for girls. We can talk about how attractive another girl, go to the bathroom in pairs or groups without raising an eyebrow...If a guy were to talk about the attractiveness of another guy or if two guys just walked off to the bathroom together...eyebrows would be raised.</p>

<p>i know shaddix. those poor guys. lol</p>

<p>i think a lot of girls are hot, but i would never do anything sexual with them, i like guys way too much for that.</p>

<p>I agree with what everyone else has said. I understand why so many guys like Jessica Alba. I watched into the blue the other day and i was like...damn, look at that ass...but I was never like, man i want to hit that. The girl that I think is the prettiest and who I look up to the most is Gemma Ward, but that is probably because we have so much in common.</p>

<p>I'll be the first guy to come out and say I've been attracted to other guys...</p>

<p>Its all good though, its more of a superficial curiosity than an actual desire to hook up with another dude. But yah, I'm confident in my masculinity =]</p>

<p>I'm gay! :)
I think this board is severely lacking gay men. Oh well!</p>

<p>Im a hetero guy. Ive never felt attracted to another guy, but i can look at another guy and tell that hes good looking and that the girls love him.</p>

<p>Have I ever been attracted to other girls?</p>

<p>Alllll the freaking time. </p>

<p>Yeah for the queer cc pride, kcirsch! :)</p>

<p>I've seen girls that I think are pretty, but in an aesthetic way. I've never been attracted to another girl. I'm just not into that.</p>

<p>I'm gay too. So yes.</p>

<p>Yup.</p>

<p>...But I'm a lesbian, so it comes with the territory. ;)</p>

<p>This might be a confusing response, but...</p>

<p>Because of the type of school I attend, I'm surrounded by girls every freakin' second. I consider myself secure in my sexuality, and I've never thought of myself a lesbian, but I don't believe attraction is restricted to members of the opposite sex. Of all the girls at my school, I have never harbored romantic/sexual feelings for any of them, although the girls at my school are not ugly. A lot of them, a lot of my friends, are so attractive, but I have never pictured them in a sexual way. </p>

<p>Now, with every rule, there is an exception. Last year, I remember this one girl who was just gorgeous. I always found myself wanting to get a glimpse of her, whether in the hallways, in the caf, in between classes. It was kind of weird. My attraction to her freaked me out a little. I still can't explain it, but she's not in my school any more, so I guess it doesn't matter. Maybe I'm bi. Maybe this is normal for straight people, but we just don't like to talk about it. I don't know.</p>

<p>No, I have not.</p>