<p>“DS14 is our second child and the one I worry about most with regard to these issues, for a number of reasons.”</p>
<p>Then think long and hard about what supports you want to have available for him at his college/university. An institution that did not have the supports someone else needed at some time in the past may have the ones your son will need when he gets there - or it may have had them all along because their issues weren’t/aren’t the same as his issues. His needs are what matters. If you can define them better, someone here may have suggestions for what you need to be looking for.</p>
<p>Wishing you all the best as you face this.</p>