Hi everyone! I’ve been looking at CC for some time now, and must say I never expected I’d be posting on it myself! But I’m really in a dilemma and would love some third party unbiased help, and thought what better place to go! I was really blessed in the admissions process, and am currently trying to decide between Harvard and Duke! Yale and Wharton are also slightly in the mix, but with time running out I feel more inclined to focus on Harvard and Duke. I got into UChicago and Dartmouth too but really am not considering them at this point.
Some other info to explain where I’m at:
-The cost is similar for all (full pay, didn’t qualify for financial aid)
-Planning on studying some combination of economics, math, CS and perhaps philosophy, but finance instead of Econ if I decide on Wharton
-Future career goal is to start a finance firm or tech company after seeing which area I like better in college
-From the Northeast so Harvard and Yale and Wharton are really well known here, but people are still impressed by Duke and seem to hold it in similar regard
-Don’t really care about being in the city as I plan to go after graduation to a big city (like NYC or Boston or SF)
-I’m sociable and value a strong balance between academics and having a good time
-Want to go somewhere with great and helpful alumni to help me navigate the ropes during and after college
-Top choice was Stanford but am on the waitlist there
-I’ve already visited Duke and Yale for their admitted students days, and just left Harvard’s Veritas (their admitted students days) today, so I’ve been able to get a good feel for all three schools. Didn’t visit Wharton since I decided I would only visit three schools
Here’s the problem: I liked Duke the most and really was looking forward to the seemingly happy community they have and fun sports culture, along with the weather, but I’m having a tough time saying no to Harvard. Even though the people I’ve spoken with in connected circles think highly of Duke, most of them thought turning down Harvard for Duke at basically the same cost wouldn’t be worth it since the connections I would get at Harvard for a future in business would be tough to match, and same with Wharton. I think Wharton was an interesting case because I’ve expressed thoughts about switching out of Wharton if I didn’t like the vibe, and in that case most people I spoke with thought Duke or Harvard or Yale would be better overall than being a normal student at Penn. Yale is in the mix too because it seemed like a balance between Harvard and Duke - I liked the residential college system, seemingly happy student body, and solid connections.
I was feeling really ready to pull the trigger for Duke after Veritas since it was pretty lackluster and dreary honestly with some bad weather, but still walking around Harvard and knowing the lore is hard to let go. Same for Yale, although I feel more comfortable letting Yale go for Duke since I feel the opportunities at both are pretty close.
So some questions:
-If I were to attend Duke, what types of opportunities would I be leaving on the table?
-I know until recently Duke has been more of a regional school, so are the alumni strong like I would find at Harvard or Wharton?
-Should I be putting this much weight on the ideas of having a good time and fun at Duke or maybe Yale, or should I go more solely for the academic/business opportunities at Harvard and Wharton? I feel like I want a balance but since some of you guys might have already gone through college, you would have thoughts on if that matters or not. Some people I’ve spoken with who went to places like Harvard and Wharton years ago seem to wish they’d gone to a more fun place for their college years like Duke which I thought was interesting, but maybe they wouldn’t have ended up where they are if they went to Duke.
Sorry for the really long post! TLDR I am leaning Duke but having a tough time letting go of opportunities at Harvard and possibly even Wharton. I basically have two days to decide, any help would be amazing!!!