<p>So I didn't go to rush this past week for a music fraternity because I wasn't sure if I wanted to do that, even though I have several friends in this particular group. I got one of the open bids sent to my campus mailbox asking me to join. I didn't expect that.</p>
<p>I KIND OF want to, but am not completely sure and only have until Thursday to decide. My parents don't really like it and don't' want to pay for it. It's not a partying fraternity, it's called a professional one and I do know the people. </p>
<p>If I'm not REALLY sure about joining something like that, does that mean it's a BAD idea to do if I'm really UNSURE????? Also what if you joined and didn't like it, are you always stuck in them forever?????</p>
<p>I JUST HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO!!!!!</p>
<p>I also feel that if I don't join it now, what if I wanted to next year and actually went to rush, but then feel like they wouldn't send me a bid if I declined it the first time because they'd be like "why bother with me" Also I'm afraid that I'm friends with several people in it and that they'll treat me differently if I don't' join,</p>
<p>HELP!</p>