Help with choosing housing?

I was wondering if anyone could help me with choosing where to live on campus my first year. I heard that Anacapa is the best for freshman, but as a lesbian I’m also kind of interested in the Rainbow House? I’m not really much of a party girl, but I also would like to live in a really open, welcoming dorm where everyone just kind of hangs out? If anyone could offer any pros or cons of any of the housing, or just general opinions that would be great!