<p>Hello Enlightened Parent!</p>
<p>So Im narrowing down my college options and now Im really stuck between two schools, Harvard and Yale. My friends and family are quick to point out that these are both great schools, but I still have to decide between them by Monday! =) </p>
<p>First off, I have no idea what I want to study. At all. While I hope to end up in business someday, I'm told that that could be achieved by majoring in history just as much as it could economics. As such, I'm not really trying to compare department vs. department. Also, the costs for both of these schools is similar and affordable, so we can leave that out of the equation for now.</p>
<p>Id really appreciate comments from anyone remotely familiar with either of these two schools! I apolgozie for my long post, though I hope my detailed elaborations (and your replies) can be used by future students making a similar choice. </p>
<p>Here are some of my thoughts on them both, by category:</p>
<p>Setting
New Haven is no Cambridge. Theres no question that there would be more to actually DO in the Boston area, more organizations to become involved in, more cultural events, etc. I like to keep busy, and so having such rich and diverse opportunities really appeals to me. New Haven is not nearly as happening by comparison (though New York is not too far)!</p>
<p>Sense of Community / School Pride
I found Yale to be overflowing with school pride and Harvard to be almost the opposite. I asked many students at Yale if they loved Yale and the response was always Of course I love Yale! At Harvard, responses varied from, Yeah, I guess... to Well, I like Harvard... to It just takes some getting used to... That said, I noticed that the more involved a student was at Harvard, the more s/he seemed to love the place.</p>
<p>There seems to be two distinct cultures at the schools... Yalies seem to actually have a culture of loving Yale which could be either artificial or genuine (or a mix see below). By comparison, one Harvard student I talked to lamented the culture of unhappiness that she observed. Was she just being more honest than the brainwashed Yalies were? I dont know... However, it sure did seem like Yalies enjoy</a> themselves more. </p>
<p>Someone once told me, you're not paying 40k a year for the education so much as the connections you can make and if this is true, it seems Yale has a large edge. Another friend had an interesting take on this, though:
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When I think about this, I think about selection bias: incoming Harvard students are not the same as incoming Yale students because the decisions about where to go are all made by people like you. Now, Yale sells itself on the role it plays in catalyzing the "ideal" college experience. Consequently, it recruits people who need that reassurance at a higher rate than it would if it did not make that a primary selling point. Such people are less likely to feel sure about their ability to generate a healthy social circle around them. This generates a perception that Yale's nurturing deserves credit, partly based in reality, partly based in believing that the Freshman-you is the same as the Senior-you in everything but academics... Not so. People break out of their high-school-era stigmas pretty quickly. They find that, without it being already known "who they are" that they can be pretty much anyone they want to be. Yale's activities count for less than Yale would have you believe.
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**This is the part Im definitely struggling with the most... how much should I value a strong sense of community and the ideal college experience? How much of Yalies obsession with Yale is genuine/warranted and how much is it a product of social dependencies? Etc?</p>
<p>Academics**
This one seems a non-issue. The professors at Harvard (might) have a slight edge over those at Yale, but Yale loves to tout its undergraduate</a> focus and slightly smaller classes. Harvard offers more freshman seminars (a Summers initiative). Considering all of this, I cant imagine that there is a substantial difference in the qualify of education. Harvard has some nice options, such as cross-enrollment at MIT for techy or business classes, which might be a nice option to have. Yale requires 36 courses instead of 32, but has more lenient distribution requirements... I dont know this category seems like a wash to me.</p>
<p>Harvard Houses vs. Yale Residential Colleges
Yales Residential College system is simply amazing... people there LOVE their colleges and I like how each one has a game room (pool, ping pong, etc.). By comparison, Harvards House system seems to bring about comparably less loyalty and the communities dont seem quite as close-knit. Also, while I know that some students love the Harvard blocking-system, it seems as though it would make the Houses very clique-y from sophomore year on...</p>
<p>Though Im a very social guy, these large schools seem... impersonal, hence my liking of the small communities within. Is this legitimate? Or, am I doing myself a disservice by making a decision based on my supposed uncertainty about [my] ability to generate a healthy social circle around myself? (from quote above)</p>
<p>"Center of the World" Effect
One thing that really stands out to me about Harvard is what I call the Center of the World effect. Harvard is a destination, much more so than Yale. For example, in my AP Euro class we learned that the Marshall Plan (aid to Europe post-WWII) was announced during a speech at Harvard, and I found myself thinking, How incredible would it be to live/learn alongside such important, world-altering events? Similarly, the media is obsessed by Harvard in a way that Yale cant match... compare the number of Google results for Harvard (104,000,000) to Yale (37,500,000). This is what I mean by the center of the world effect and it seems like it would be a neat place to be!</p>
<p>*Campuses *
Both campuses were stunning. In general, I liked Yales gothic buildings a little bit more. That said, nothing compares to Harvards main library; the huge neoclassical pillars and archways made me feel very scholarly :). Also, [url=<a href="http://www.fas.harvard.edu/%7Ememhall/images2/annen1.jpg%5DAnnenberg%5B/url">http://www.fas.harvard.edu/~memhall/images2/annen1.jpg]Annenberg[/url</a>], the freshman dining hall, is something else (can you imagine eating there?!). Yale is in the process of renovating all of the dorms, though, and shiny new dorms are always a plus =)</p>
<p>Prestige
While I would never let prestige govern my decision, I would by lying if I said that prestige played NO role whatsoever. Its not just the ego boost Im after HY are universally known for a certain caliber of student, and thats a positive association that could potentially open doors. In this regard, I think Harvard has the slight edge.</p>
<p>So in the end, I love many aspects of Harvard (the opportunities) but Im totally a sucker for strong communities and relationships (Yales strength). Parents.. what are you thoughts? Which sounds like a better fit? At the risk of oversimplifying... </p>
<p>* "Happenin', Impersonal Boston" or "Close-Knit, Smalltown Yale" ? *</p>
<p>Thank you so much for your thoughts or comments!
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