<p>I liked calmom's suggestion. Getting a start at community college (part time?) ensures that when he does feel ready to go full-time at a 4-year school, he won't feel so far behind and will have at least some classes under his belt. Meanwhile, he would still have time to follow his passion.</p>
<p>When he gets tired of competition, maybe he can spend a year working on a cruise ship, whirling wealthy old ladies around on the floor. Perhaps one will want to adopt him and pay for his college, even. :-)</p>