<p>Arrgh, I just wrote a LONG friendly advice piece but got timed out. Imagine now a warmer, friendlier writer's voice (tone) , but I'll just summarize my thoughts in a list:</p>
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<li><p>Parents don't do "Chances" because, as common wisdom, we see that as a student game that can be cruel (anyone can say anything, and someone highly competitive tells you you have no chance...the next guy is in awe of your stats and says you're an easy-in so gives false confidence..what good is THAT? Very misleading in both directions.</p></li>
<li><p>Instead, we advise on the colleges we know about (maybe becvause we went there, or our kids visited or applied or attend, so we have an impression to share. We try to phrase things with "I" messages so we remember to stick to direct experience, and not just repeat often-repeated phrases about colleges (reputations). </p></li>
<li><p>I'd recommend, if you've not yet read it: Carolyn's (free) admission advice site [url=<a href="http://www.AdmissionsAdvice.com%5Dadmissionsadvice.com%5B/url">http://www.AdmissionsAdvice.com]admissionsadvice.com[/url</a>] She's a professional college counselor who shares her wisdom with others, and when not overwhelmed with workload also pops in to post on Parents.</p></li>
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<p>Study her links on essays such as "Build a List from the Bottom UP" and the importance of including Safety, Match and Reach schools. Here we parents say the most important school on your list is the Safety, and some of us also had Financial Safety schools, too. Then you look to resources such as Petersons.com (or maybe there's a more efficient way--parents, please help..?) to find the midrange of SAT's. Comparing this to your own SAT's, you can begin to develop a list of Safety, Match and Reach schools.</p>
<p>That's how the Parents try to "increase your chances" at this early stage of your search. </p>
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<li><p>Don't be only driven by statistics, but realize that you might have something in your personal essay or global background that will cause an Admissions officer to say, "this person could contribute a valuable perspective on campus to our campus community..." So, do REACH a bit above your statistics (a bit) and write great essays for those schools, too. </p></li>
<li><p>Give full consideration to Liberal Arts Colleges, alongside the unviersities, for your undergraduate years: In fact, look for schools whose websites mention "community" a lot (seeing "reach schools" above). Some of the LIberal Arts Colleges (LAC's) on that wionderful list of FInancial Aid schools for Internationals provide a family feeling at the undergraduate level. Study the numbers of students and other variables; ho9w many internationals, how many students total, how many domestically are there from other minority groups ("diversity") statistics and reflect on what that means for you personally. </p></li>
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<p>I knew of friends of my S and D at Oberlin (pop 2800) and Amherst (pop l800) from all over the globe who felt their adjustment and intellectual opportunity was very large at a LAC. They are not as well known overseas, but domestically they are respected. Oberlin in particular has some overlap with its international pool and its financial aid pool; that's just the place I know about. In some schools, however, the internationals admitted are only from wealthy backgrounds and that's something to watch out for with large numbers of international students if you need financial aid. </p>
<p>I wish I could cite the actual source, but there was a grad school prof at an Ivy who said he actually thought the LAC-prepared students in his graduate courses were better prepared as students than the undegraduates from his own Ivy. (Duck, I'll be flamed, am just trying to open up your consideration to LAC's as well as universities). After 4 years at the LAC, you apply to the larger university for graduate school. If you go to an LAC high on the list (top 50 in USNews..) your admission application to a university for graduate school will be considered with respect, provided you work hard and maximize your educational opportunity for the 4 years as an undergraduate there, too, of course.</p>
<p>I just went on-and-on about LAC's in the paragraphs above, because I know that they are not as famous overseas as here in the U.S. There are students who won't deal with them here, either, because they simply want a large student body, world-famous research projects coming out of their university which, in turn, attracts world-famous professors, and so on. But, class for class, the teaching at the LIberal Arts Colleges sometimes (not always) is superior to what's going on in the Ivy League, or at least the students find the ability to access their professors with great ease and be considered "important without competing for professor's attention from graduate students (and have no graduate assistants " teaching them) is what they prefer for their own learning style. </p>
<p>LAC versus University analogy: Very much like deciding whether to live in a village where you're well-known so can be a leader (LAC) or to the big city with more anonymity but a greater menu of opportunities (university) is my best attempt to describe the difference. There is a right path for every student, and only you know you. </p>
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<li>Another source of info might be the president of the International Students Association at each school that interests you. They should be available by website on the university and hopefully also post their email, too. if not, just write to them at teh website, which they might even check from home this week, depending. You happen to be in the Christmas/New YEars holiday break, when many students go home with their laptops; so hopefully they'd answer you now as they are without academic pressure (except those writing and studying for exams in February!) But some just completed their terms on Dec. 20 and are home recovering right now :)<br></li>
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<p>Good luck on your journey. It's impressive that you found this website so you are obviously resourceful. Ask in Parents Forum especially as you try to balance some of the family priorities, issues of international adjustment and so on. Some of the parents who post here live overseas at this moment. Others have sent students overseas. </p>
<p>Good luck on your journey. Come back to Parents Forum again, but maybe not with "Chances" questions :)</p>