Hidden Gem Advice from a New Parent

Prep School Admissions
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<p>Hey everyone,</p>

<p>I just wanted to give a little advice to those parents who are beginning to admissions cycle. A little background - my daughter began talking about boarding school in the 6th grade. Hubby and I were initially against this idea. As 8th grade approached and she kept bringing it up, I began to really investigate the possibility. I knew there was no way we could afford this for her. I read on this forum ways parents sacrificed for their children. I asked lots of questions. We also have a younger son at home and I refused to let him do without so his sister could have. </p>

<p>Fast forward a couple months - daughter kept on and on about applying and we decided to let her apply - we told her the only way she could go was with full aid or a scholarship. With our income, >150K, I knew full aid was never going to happen. But, we agreed to let her apply and it be a lesson on "things don't always go your way." She was so determined. She studied for her SSAT's, made a 96 composite and made her list of schools - all girls schools. She was only interested in schools that could be considered "Hidden Gems." She wrote her essays and we waited for March 10. </p>

<p>She was accepted into all 6 schools she applied to with varying amounts of aid - from 25K to 41K in aid. I still didn't believe it was possible. And then, that afternoon, we received a call that would forever change our lives....one small school called and told me she was awarded the only full merit scholarship they give. I was floored. She was thrilled. </p>

<p>Fast forward to this past weekend - well, we flew to her new home. I could have never imagined this would be our life a few short months ago. She's all moved in and we said our goodbyes on Friday. I've gotten some short texts the past couple of days - she's in love with school, she's met some amazing girls, and she's so excited for the year. </p>

<p>So, parents, as your begin your search - don't discount those "hidden gems." They could be as equally perfect for your child as some of the bigger named schools. I'm so glad I came here for research. Our lives have been forever changed. I can't wait to see what the future holds for my sweet girl. I miss her terribly. But, I know she's going to do great things. </p>

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<p>That’s an awesome story! I’ll be applying next year and this was interesting and informative. I’ve fallen in love with the “big name” schools but I’m looking at two all-girls schools: St. Timothys in Maryland and Stoneleigh Burnam. Do you or your daughter have any experience with these schools or feedback on them?And where did she end up going? Thanks! :)</p>

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<p>A big congrats to your daughter and family. Determination and passion rewarded!</p>

<p>Yes, hidden gems could be equally good in many cases and better than top names in many ways including college app.
Hope for the best for your daughter!</p>

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<p>Thanks for the update, Louisiana! I’m so happy to hear that she’s thrilled to be at her new school.</p>

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<p>Cameo, how is your daughter? I hope she has another wonderful year!</p>

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@Louisianamomof2 … Would you mind sharing the name of the school?

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MODERATOR’S NOTE:
@Louisianamomof2 has not been here for over a year, so I doubt the question will be answered. Closing thread.