<p>AP scores matter- it’s AP grades that can be bogus. (I mention this because several threads lately have noted adcoms don’t care about AP scores or look at them. Of course they do.) </p>
<p>High ACT and low gpa is a warning the kid is either bright or tests well, but doesn’t put forth much effort, week-to week. Not good. Likewise, gpa is a measure of how the kid strives- no matter what we say about real kids getting real grades, the more competitive the college is (in terms of the classroom bar,) the more they need to know this kid puts his best out, won’t settle.</p>
<p>OP, your friend is yanking your chain and, like many friends and neighbors- does not know enough to make broad statements.</p>
<p>The most exclusive, expensive schools, boarding or not, do have some inflation characterstics- 15 vals? Every kid with super ECs? Ya, right. That’s coaching. Adcoms know. </p>
<p>Let me add to the “how much adcoms know” topic. There are very few hs they compeletely and totally have never heard of or can’t find some reference to. You have got to ensure there is a school profile or some document that describes offerings, standards, grading, policies and assesses the school’s success. At some very small schools, this is an ineffective 3/4 page document- see what you can learn about yours.</p>
<p>About ECs- it’s the pattern, challenge, impact and commitment (more than occasional, best if done over time) that count. They don’t check- or rather, rarely do, though CA has a random check policy. It’s the kid’s choices that matter and how he led, whether he climbed out of the box or just did what was avialble, in front of him. Cookie-cutter, uninspired? Or finds a way to make a difference. What the kid lists is often a real view into how he thinks about his EC time.</p>