<p>younghov, the thing you must remember is that it isn't always easy to 'ease off' once you reach age 50. Chances are that the practice you've established will always require long hours and your age will have nothing to do with it. Lawyers who have the type of practice that require long hours rarely change the type of work they do to accomodate a shorter work week. I've never seen that happen in the 30+ years that my H has been a lawyer. He was at a large firm for 20+ years and has been the General Counsel of a large corporation for the past 10, with no noticeable change in the number of hours worked. He leaves the house every morning at 6:15 and if he's home in the evening before 8, that's early. When you reach this level, it's very difficult to do anything less. </p>
<p>Over the years, he was very good about making it to school concerts, plays, soccer games, etc. as often as was possible but there were definitely some that he missed. He still does! :) It has been a rare occasion in the past 25 years to have ever had a vacation where there have been no work phone calls, and more recently, no laptop or Blackberry communication, as well as no work which had to be done. It's the nature of the type of work he does. Some weekend work is a reality, sometimes it can all be done from home, sometimes not. Yes, we've been through the changing of weekend plans, and there have been many New Year's Eve parties where he's arrived very late, if at all, because of end of year deals. We've had to cancel vacation plans, sometimes last minute. </p>
<p>Having said all that, though, there are also enormous benefits to his job. He does interesting, challenging, important work; he's never bored; and he's been financially successful beyond our wildest imagination. This has made it possible for our family (both immediate and extended) to benefit in innumerable, and sometimes immeasurable, ways. We have also been able to generously support the charities we believe in, and the communities in which we've lived. There are pros and cons to every profession, and I think that with a profession like law, it helps to think of these issues ahead of time if possible. Being informed is always a positive.</p>