How can you tell whether a guy likes you or not?

<p>I can relate to Untilted and his comments. I get pretty nervous - as most guys do - when I'm talking with a girl I like. I agree that one definite tell-tale sign is when a guy continually stares at you. If your eyes meet once or twice, that doesn't necessarily he likes you. I suppose it has to become repetitive and happen for a long period of time (few weeks).</p>

<p>citrus377 pretty much covered all the aspects of how to tell if a guy likes a girl. I guess some guys approach a girl of their liking from a different aspect. While some guys may talk to the girl they like, others may simply stare at her and get shy when she's around. They may even never end up talking to the girl much (i.e. Charlie Brown in Peanuts has a crush on a fellow classmate, but in the comic strip, he never actually garners the courage to talk to her; he just admires her from a distance).</p>

<p>when they just can't stop talking to you....always have something to say....always trying to make new conversation....then get nervous and end up screwin it up :p.....i dunno...but whenever i liked my girl b4 we started dating, i was really open and i'd flirt with her ALOT....i'd always throw in some comment comending her for something, or telling her how pretty she is....here's the evolution of guy convo relating to your looks....first you're pretty, then sexy, then beautiful...if he says you're beautiful, then that's a good sign :p....and if he acts like a big dork and starts saying things that make you go "awwwww"....:)</p>

<p>btw...i don't get this whole "head tilting" thing???..what kind of "tilting"?</p>

<p>tilting your head a little to the left or to the right...i guess for a cute effect or because a girl is shy ... it just happens naturally sometimes cuz i just realized i do that too heh</p>

<p>I have a question. Do shy girls exist???</p>

<p>I don't know if this has been mentioned before. When I like a girl (or think she's hot. haha), I just kinda bump into her as I'm walking by the lockers and she's walking towards me. And the next day, if she bumps into me, I think of "going for it." Haha. It's kinda lame, but yeah...</p>

<p>In my case they've always broken down after a while and told me, very emotionally, usually after lots of awkward buildup over AIM. I couldn't say whether that's representative of all males, but that's pretty much the reason I'm still single.</p>

<p>thank you so much stillremains.... you've just helped me decipher something...so basically, if a guy bumps into me deliberately(more than twice), he's interested? haha</p>

<p>Yah they do AlexMartin. I am so damn shy. =&lt;/p>

<p>Should shy people be with other shy people so they can be outgoing with each other but understand why they're shy with other people? or should shy people with outgoing people to make them less shy to the world?</p>

<p>i think a shy person going out with an outgoing person would be better because perhaps they could even out each other out...i was pretty quiet and shy and i went out with an outgoing person and i guess i talk more now and voice out my opinions</p>

<p>LOL... I never thought about the head tilting but it is completely TRUE!</p>

<p>I'm a girl so I have no idea what goes on in the minds of guys but I'm having a similar dilema. There's a guy in my class who always parks by me and walks me to my car... I think: just friends, but my friends think differently. I don't know. I want nothing to do with that whole dating thing right now so maybe he senses that. I feel kind of bad, actually!</p>

<p>I have a question.. do you think that when a guy plays with your hair or with your hand...that's some sort of a sign that he likes you?</p>

<p>..or he could just be a really big flirt..</p>

<p>To shortie,</p>

<p>Most extroverted guys are willing to go out with shy girls. Is it a good match? I wouldn't say so. Shy girls are much harder to work with...they don't vocalize thoughts, opinions, perspectives, and it makes dating and relationship development much tougher. Sure the girl benefits; it's a lot of work for the guy.</p>

<p>To mangos, my good friend: If a guy touches you, he likes you and would probably be more than happy to devastate you in bed.</p>

<p>LOL TRICEPS LETS GO OUT (JUST KIDDING)</p>

<p>i'm sorry, i can't help but laugh at your comments</p>

<p>Scratch his belly. If one of his legs starts moving like its trying to walk on its own, then he likes you.</p>

<p>I'm visiting NY on the 18th...initiate the belly scratching!</p>

<p>Wow. Thank you for this thread. I know I'm not alone now. Everything everyone described is pretty much how I acted around the girl I liked, although she doesn't feel the same way, and now, I'm just completely embarassed.</p>

<p>Bascially, I complimented her a lot, talked a lot about her interests, tried to imitate weird stuff that she does, teased her somewhat, make a bunch of really bad jokes, bugged her a lot about random stuff like "hey, what did u get on the calc test" or "how was ur weekend", bugged her a lot on AIM, sent her funny pictures/links through AIM, gave up my seat at the lunch table, gave her lunch money, helped her with HW, tried to stress some common interests, and basically tried to be weird and funny(?), although I prolly looked really stupid.</p>

<p>She picked up on it pretty quickly and asked one of my friends, and once she found out, started acting really mean to me. I knew I pretty much had no chance with her but clung to some last stupid hope that maybe she was "winnable" or whatever, but now, I'm completely embarassed, and feel like prostituted myself for a hopeless cause.</p>

<p>lmao.. i've been in the same exact situation as cherrybarry.. in the end, the only thing hurt is either pride or your heart.. i doubt it went farther than your pride though... so just move on. you could laugh about it and tell your grandchildren/children this story when you're older..</p>

<p>yeah...it's just funny and depressing at the same time. I made it so obvious, and she picked it up pretty quickly but never told me.</p>

<p>She found out about three weeks ago, and I had wondered why she suddenly started acting annoyed and giving me mean stares in the past few weeks. Either she hates me now because I like her (which is sorta immature), or she just wanted to give me the impression that she didn't feel the same way.</p>

<p>It's hard to talk to her now though. I'm not sure what to say to her and I'm afraid to be nice to her cuz she'll prolly think I'm flirting with her again. lol</p>

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She found out about three weeks ago, and I had wondered why she suddenly started acting annoyed and giving me mean stares in the past few weeks.

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She's just immature. It is possible to tell somebody you're not into them "that way" without being a biznatch about it. The only times it's acceptable to be mean are if the guy persists or stalks after you've told him. What comes around goes around and she'll eventually get hers.</p>