<p>Ladies of this board: you must participate.</p>
<p>If you like a guy, what are your mannerisms? I'm not doing that "just take a risk lol ;)" crap because I don't want a restraining order on me if a girl doesn't like me like that.</p>
<p>Explain things like what you'd say to them, where you'd ask to hang out, body language, etc.</p>
<p>Its time someone made these things clear.</p>
<p>-Lots of hugs and touching...sometimes it's hard to tell if she's touchy-feely with everyone, so be careful.
-Also, if you normally hang out in a group of people, but she's recently been seeking you out alone, that's probably a good sign.
-If she laughs at all your jokes, even the stupid ones (personally, I find this one obnoxious).</p>
<p>I'll try to think of more...</p>
<p>Yeah, DEFINITELY a good sign if she keeps trying to be around you alone.</p>
<p>Eh, your last one LIR... not for me. I laugh at everything. >_<</p>
<p>If she likes it when you touch her and she touches you back.</p>
<p>If her face lights up when she sees you. Definitely a good sign.</p>
<p>If the way she talks or her tone in voice or her pitch or volume changes when she is speaking to you, good sign.</p>
<p>I wouldn't say anything different to them. Well, I probably wouldn't talk to them as much. That is, I'd be around them as often as a friend (or more) but I wouldn't be as talkative with them (not that I am in the first place, but I wouldn't be as relaxed around them to just say anything) and I'd be quieter and softer and smile more. The kind of smile that's very natural, calm, and warm.</p>
<p>In general, you can't tell a girl likes you by WHAT she says.... You need to pay attention to her. Saying "Let's hang out at your place and see that movie" or whatever isn't code for anything. And talking about sexual things isn't code for anything either. It's not what she says. It's... way she does thing. Like I said earlier. Look for a change. If you can find a change in her behaviour when she is with you, there's a good chance.</p>
<p>It's kind of hard to tell because it is different with different girls.</p>
<p>Before my boyfriend and I began dating, I went out of my way to see him, coming to school early so we could hang out before AP Physics. I also talked to him online and gave him hugs and all that stuff =)</p>
<p>I don't know. Really, just give it a try.</p>
<p>she acts excited and happy to see you. when you walk into a room her disposition becomes a bit brighter.</p>
<p>that sounded really cheesy but w/e.</p>
<p>Giving it a try when she feels nothing = awkwardness. After she turns you down and then you stop talking to her completely, she realizes that you were just wanting to get into her pants. This makes her even more disgruntled.</p>
<p>Perhaps its best to not tell anybody how I really feel, yes? All this crap makes things way more complex.</p>
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she acts excited and happy to see you. when you walk into a room her disposition becomes a bit brighter.
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Exactly. Her face lights up. She's happy to see you. She's into you.</p>
<p>Uhm... I don't know exactly if giving it a shot with a girl who's not that into is good or not. I mean, if you're just wanting to get laid go ahead and ask her. Who cares if she rejects you? But if you're looking for a relationship, I'm not sure if developed feelings are as good as feelings that have been there.</p>
<p>most of what everyone's said so far...
when in a group discussing plans she goes out of the way to find out if you're going before planning anything.
makes an extra effort to talk to you and sit/stand near you in group situations.</p>
<p>I'll add more later too.</p>
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Giving it a try when she feels nothing = awkwardness. After she turns you down and then you stop talking to her completely, she realizes that you were just wanting to get into her pants. This makes her even more disgruntled.</p>
<p>Perhaps its best to not tell anybody how I really feel, yes? All this crap makes things way more complex.
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God, you are putting way more into this than is necessary.</p>
<p>If you just want in her pants WHY DO YOU CARE if she is disgruntled when yous top talking to her? Why? You don't even care about her, you just want in pants. If you DID care about her, you'd still be talking to her after she rejects you. SO WHY DO YOU CARE???</p>
<p>BROOOOO its easy. </p>
<p>Take her out to an expensive restaurant. You "conveniently" forgot your wallet. If she pays, she likes u! If she walks out on u, then you know she doenst like you. </p>
<p>Also, make alot of promises but BREAK EM. Tell her you'll call her but DONT. if she still likes you afterwards, she realyl likes you! </p>
<p>Also, pick your nose infront of her. If shes down, then she likes you! if she runs waay, she doenst like you! </p>
<p>Obviously, im fantasizing but man if you find a girl like that you hit bank!</p>
<p>DO not pick your nose... if she liked you, you picking your nose will give her second thoughts...</p>
<p>I also do not think the paying thing will work. If I have the money to pay for the meal and he can't pay, I will pay and make him do something for me later. It doesn't mean I like him.</p>
<p>Problem with the 2nd one is how can you tell she likes you? Its true if you do not call when you say you will call and she still likes you then she does dig you (its true T_T), but how do you know she likes you?</p>
<p>sorry, quitejaded. realizes = thinks.</p>
<p>I mean that if you stop talking to her, she'd think that you as well as the rest of men just act nice to bang.</p>
<p>So? That's her problem and a cognitive defect. You have nothing to do with her now.</p>
<p>Plus, all you really wanted to do was to screw. If she doesn't want to screw, who gives a flying ****? She obviously won't give a doggy style one.</p>
<p>I never said all I wanted to do was screw. Damn, where did you come up with that idea?</p>
<p>ok if you want to know if a girl LIKES you, as in has a CRUSH on you, i can tell you right now- you're probably not going to be able to tell. Girls all act in their own ways. Personally, I'm a freaking moron, and my instincts tell me to stop talking to the guy completely, hide when he comes in the room, and if he talks to me, be mean to him. I dont know why, its the stupidest thing ever, but evidently my biochemistry is messed up and i shouldn't be reproducing and my instincts tell me to stay away from all romance. But my friends who are normal (gah i envy them) will usually spend MORE time with the guy, laugh a lot, and look at him from across the room (and enjoy it whenthe guy catches them). I dunno. every girl is different. and most of us expect YOU GUYS to make the first move.</p>
<p>......never!</p>
<p>a girl can like u only if she talks to u directly...unless she's one of those ideal submissive, super-shy european brunette or african princess.</p>
<p>for some reason...this thread reminds me of dante's love for beatrice. ..but of course, with none of the refined italian sensibilities in this modern society!!</p>
<p>Can't tell you for all girls, but when I'm really in to a guy these are some of the things I generally do...</p>
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<li>go out of my way to accept his invitations to go do stuff (usually with friends I'll only go if I don't have a lot of stuff that needs to get done...with a guy I'm in to I'll find a way to get it done so I can still hang out)</li>
<li>am willing to hang out alone with him several times a week (I usually get tired of people, so if I'm accepting invitations to hang out more than 3 nights a week...duh)</li>
<li>am generally nicer to them (I tend to be honest to a fault, but I exercise more tact with guys I'm in to)</li>
<li>more eye contact than usual (especially true in group settings)</li>
<li>and the biggest thing is that I'm more willing to just sit and listen (which means I tend to remember a heck of a lot more little details about them than I do for other people)</li>
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<p>So those are the biggies I can think of at the moment...there are probably many more that I'm not even aware of at this point. </p>
<p>Oh, and I don't do crushes (or at least not since my Junior year of high school). I associate the term 'crush' with being infatuated with someone you don't really know much about...which was very true for me back then...and was the cause of way too many two week 'relationships' because it took me about that long to figure out that while they may be attractive, I couldn't stand being around them. So yeah, if I find a guy interesting now, then I'll get to know them better before I start actually developing feelings for them.</p>
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Damn, where did you come up with that idea?
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Because YOU said you would STOP talking to her!!</p>
<p>"- and the biggest thing is that I'm more willing to just sit and listen (which means I tend to remember a heck of a lot more little details about them than I do for other people)"</p>
<p>that's a good one. If she's willing to sit and listen to you talk about something she wouldn't otherwise be interested in (e.g. sports maybe?), she probably likes you.</p>