how do black girls feel about asian guys?

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<p>i like beyonce... i just don't know how she feels about me</p>

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<p>Asian guys are cute and can be hot. It really depends on their personality. </p>

<p>I probably won't like one of those asian kids who think they're hot ***** and go around smoking weed. And I probably won't like one of those asian kids who are heavily nerdy.</p>

<p>It pretty much depends. </p>

<p>Pacific Islanders are really hot, though.</p>

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<p>hahahahah</p>

<p>whatever, black girls like me for whatever reason. I'm a stocky little Italian dude. I like black girls cuz they have nice booties and can dance. </p>

<p>WASP girls don't feel me so much though...i don't really have the waify abercrombie look i guess.</p>

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<p>LMAO!!!!</p>

<p>who was the one that called hotpiece a hybrid? You cant just go around calling black people hybrid's ok? They aren't like animals.</p>

<p>Honestly, that was the funniest/most ignorant thing i ever read. And why was it so hard to believe that she's got two black parents? This isn't Harry Potter, its not like she has to prove shez a purebred.....</p>

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<p>Haha Amy you better watch out! Voldemort's gonna come knocking on your door to check your pureblood status lol lol.</p>

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Yes but on the other hand here is an article about a number of African-Americans who are dating only African men.

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<p>But that has pretty much always been the case - the rise (albeit small) in the no. of BFs willing to look at "other options" is a recent phenomena.</p>

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<p>Wasn't there a recent statistic that says that asian men and black girls are the least likely to get married. I heard a discussion of it on a radio station once.</p>

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<p>Translation; "you're creepy and I don't want you stalking me". </p>

<p>On a more focused note, I've never seen a black girl hook up with an Asian guy. Tons of Asian girls hook up with black guys, but not vice versa.</p>

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On a more focused note, I've never seen a black girl hook up with an Asian guy. Tons of Asian girls hook up with black guys, but not vice versa.

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<p>There are BFs with an Asian fetish (more than you may think).</p>

<p>BMs usually aren't high on the list for the majority of AFs - which is why only about 1% of married US born/raised AFs are married to BMs.</p>

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<p>African-American women dating only African men? Why? Caribbean blacks have the highest social standing of all blacks in the United States of America. They're the creme de la creme. They're not silly enough to separate ourselves from our African-American brethren like Africans, but hardly fall into the vices of crime and anti-intellectualism like African-Americans.</p>

<p>I don't know why African-American females complain about a lack of "good black men". It's partially their fault. African-American women don't appear to interested in focused black men at my age at all. They'd rather have the loser with his pants sagging of his butt. And so, many men conform (men will do what's necessary to please a woman and mate, it's biology). When those women get older and actually want a man with a brain, they're left with their own pathetic creations -- dumb ***es stuck in perpetual boyhood. If no African-American women -- no, if MOST African-American women wanted men that were academically or professionally minded the average black man would be a complete nerd. </p>

<p>But it's not like there aren't a lot of good black men out there. There are. LOTS. Women just have sucky taste.</p>

<p>In fact, that applies to ALL women, regardless of race.</p>

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There are BFs with an Asian fetish (more than you may think).</p>

<p>BMs usually aren't high on the list for the majority of AFs - which is why only about 1% of married US born/raised AFs are married to BMs.

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<p>No, there are far fewer BF's with an Asian fetish than AFs with jungle fever. In fact, I've never met a woman that was attracted to Asian men. Ever. They'll say they've seen some cute or hot ones, but they never have an actual preference for that race. I know white girls that like black guys; black girls that like white guys; black and white girls that like Latino guys; but I've rarely met a girl that actually liked Asian guys. </p>

<p>Also, most BM don't put AF's high on their list either from my experience. Your assumption that few US born AFs reasons for rarely marrying BMs is horribly one-sided. Neither of those groups go for each other much at all. Like wutangfinancial said in another post, they don't have the body that's popular in the African-American/black community.</p>

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Wow Alchemy, someone sounds bitter... The reason that African American females go after the man with the "thug mentality" is because it is soooo ingrained in our culture that education is only for those who wish they were white. So, if I'm growing up with this mentality, I want a man who acts like that street thug and has his pants falling off of his ass. However, keep in mind, that this is generally only applicable to ignorant/uneducated black females (ignorant/uneducated just because of the norms shown in popular cultue). Many educated black females are looking for someone who will provide them with stability, security, comfort and love. So, you've obviously been looking in the wrong place.</p>

<p>And just as a general note, many educated black men are not looking for an educated black woman.</p>

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No, there are far fewer BF's with an Asian fetish than AFs with jungle fever. In fact, I've never met a woman that was attracted to Asian men. Ever.

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<p>I never claimed anything with regard to nos. - nevertheless, the no. in either case is pretty small.</p>

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Your assumption that few US born AFs reasons for rarely marrying BMs is horribly one-sided.

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<p>It's NOT an assumption - but data from the US Census (which I don't think is "one-sided").</p>

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Wow Alchemy, someone sounds bitter...

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<p>More like, annoyed. If I have to listen to another middle-aged black woman complain about how there are "no good black men" I'll hurt someone.</p>

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The reason that African American females go after the man with the "thug mentality" is because it is soooo ingrained in our culture that education is only for those who wish they were white.

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<p>I already know this. I'm a poor black guy from the inner-city. The absolute worst one in America . If anyone's had their share of experiences with thug life and all that other BS it's me. I'm tired of it. And education doesn't make you white. In my school, a typical inner-city all black school, I was a top student and was never once called white. No one said education was for white people, or called people oreos much after freshman year. Some would say education was all about white people and their discoveries (which I understand) and disengage themselves from it. This was a majority black school mind you. Nothing justifies the "thug mentality". Nothing justifies magnifying it like it's some type of great lifestyle.</p>

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So, if I'm growing up with this mentality, I want a man who acts like that street thug and has his pants falling off of his ass.

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<p>That's still stupid and unjustifiable. I know of girls my age that are like that (they get taken really quickly, because there's an abundance of good black guys whereas there's a scarcity of black girls that actually look for good black guys).</p>

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So, you've obviously been looking in the wrong place.

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<p>Yep, that comes with living in the hood. <em>dodges stray bullet</em></p>

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And just as a general note, many educated black men are not looking for an educated black woman.

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<p>If my experiences are that of the typical educated black man, why would we? I've had mostly bad experiences with black girls my age (which is why I date black women way than me). At my age our only choice is to date non-black women. By the time black women want a real black men a non-black woman has snatched most of us up.</p>

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It's NOT an assumption - but data from the US Census (which I don't think is "one-sided").

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<p>OK, people marry each other -- it's a mutual thing. Therefore, saying that AF's rarely marry BM's doesn't necessarily mean that AF's don't like BM's. It could just as well be that BM's date AF's. But it probably means that AF's don't go generally for BM's and vise versa.</p>

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<p>Uhh, I never stated that AFs didn't like BMs - I merely pointed out that BMs weren't exactly high on the list for AFs as a dating/marrying option - the same thing that you eventually came around to stating - "But it probably means that AF's don't go generally for BM's and vise versa."</p>

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I think what Alchemy was trying to say is from your post that you made it sound as if BM were lusting after AF but AF didn't have BM high on their list which is why there is such a low BM/AF marriage rate.</p>

<p>But he was trying to say that the low marriage rate is because of the lack of attraction or whatever both ways. Asian girls don't go after black men because of their skin color/culture(what they're parents would say)/ and opportunity(not many situations where BM/AF interact, especially as much as WM/AF). And Black men don't go after Asian girls because MANY black men strongly prefer a girl with a nice round butt and at least a C-cup, and how many Asian females do you know with that body type.</p>

<p>I saw one at the mall about 2 years ago. It was such a rare and beautiful thing that I almost fainted, and I still remember it today, a size0-2 asian girl with a black girl booty and real C-cup breasts is something you don't see everyday.</p>

<p>But I have seen that when an educated BM and an AF get together they can have a healthy relationship and even get married. While it may be a problem at first with the AF's parents when they see that the BM is educated they usually accept him. Many Asians seem to hold very stereotypical views of black people because of extreme lack of interaction. Blacks and Asians don't usually live together. This in turn hurts their relations.</p>

<p>If black people and asians interacted nearly as much as white people and asians I think you would see BM/AF and AM/BF marriage rates jump dramatically.</p>

<p>Not nearly as high as WM/AF marriage rates though due to the disaster which I like to call black culture nowadays.</p>

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<p>Well what Alchemy says about Girls being attracted to AM, seems about right.</p>

<p>Ive never,ever in my life seen a BF,WF,or hispanic female with an Asian male.
Ever.</p>

<p>I have seen non-asian girls that really like, or go out with half-asian males. But that makes more sense. I think a big problem is that, at least it seems to me, that many asian males tend to only become close friends with Asians, or tend to mostly congregate with asians, rather than other races. I mean i see asians at my school that get along fine with everyone else, but usually they only speak english. It seems that all the asians i know that speak an asian language, tend to hang out mostly with other asians, even if they do not speak the same asian language.</p>

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I think what Alchemy was trying to say is from your post that you made it sound as if BM were lusting after AF but AF didn't have BM high on their list which is why there is such a low BM/AF marriage rate.

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<p>Not seeing where you guys get that (esp. since on another thread, I had posted how a large segment of the BM pop. prefers “fuller-figured” women).</p>

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Ive never,ever in my life seen a BF,WF,or hispanic female with an Asian male.
Ever.

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<p>You must lead a sheltered life.</p>

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I have seen non-asian girls that really like, or go out with half-asian males. But that makes more sense. I think a big problem is that, at least it seems to me, that many asian males tend to only become close friends with Asians, or tend to mostly congregate with asians, rather than other races. I mean i see asians at my school that get along fine with everyone else, but usually they only speak english. It seems that all the asians i know that speak an asian language, tend to hang out mostly with other asians, even if they do not speak the same asian language.

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<p>Uhh, Asians aren’t a homogeneous group.</p>

<p>There are plenty of Asians who (1) don’t have many (or any) Asian friends (“bananas”/”whitewashed”; percentage-wise, there are probably more Asians than blacks or non-white Hispanics who congregate mainly with mainstream (“white”) society), (2) hang out only with other Asians – usually broken down into ethnic lines (Koreans hanging out with Koreans, Viets with Viets, etc.) or (3) move btwn both worlds seamlessly.</p>

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<p>I know they arent homogeneous. But at my school of 2,000 highschool students, most asians (which make up ide say roughly 20 percent of the student body) tend to stick together, except for the majority of the Monolingual english speaking asians at my school. I mean there is a decent amount of interaction between all asians, hispanics, blacks, and whites at my school, but if there are every a single group of friends with the same general ethnicity, it is usually all asians. </p>

<p>And whenever you go to dances at my school, all asian males (with the exception of one i know) are seen dancing with asian girlfriends/dates.</p>

<p>And how did you get that i said they were homogeneous. Thats like saying whites are homogeneous. I specifically stated that most asian natives at my school tend to stick together, even though their native land may not be the same as eachother (Vietnamese, korean,japanese,chinese, etc.)</p>

<p>And im definitely not sheltered. I live in a very heterogeneous california suburb. You must know that AM WF relationships are like 10 times less common than AF WM relationships. I see quite a few AF WM couples at my school, but never seen the other way around. I mean i have on tv, and maybe in SF, but nobody i know, or have met.</p>

<p>I do know an AF who's boyfriend is black, and thats a rarity.</p>

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<p>Yeah, but that's one HS in a part of one state.</p>

<p>I certainly don't think that things in my HS/region applied across the board.</p>