<p>Hi, bird rock,</p>
<p>Enjoy the parents' meeting tonight. I always learn a lot from those things. It is smart to continue your "out of school" research, too, as GCs often don't have the time or experience to individualize advice to every unique student scenario.</p>
<p>Not sure what you are asking about wording questions. If your son is an URM and your question is, "What is our high school's track record in matriculation of under-represented minorities at selective colleges?," that seems an appropriate question. A related query I might ask is, how does the school help URMs identify merit scholarship, admission and other programs specifically targeted to URM students? </p>
<p>There are a whole set of special "rules" for serious athletes that involve not only the GC/college admissions folks, but also coaches and college athletic departments. I gather that doesn't apply to your son, as you should already have received info on that unless his sport is a spring sport, in which case, now is the time to jump on that potential hook.</p>
<p>Middle class status doesn't really count for anything--that covers a huge number of kids. Any nod goes to the economically disadvantaged. And the other possible "bonus point" you reference is for kids whose parents didn't go to college, called "first generation"--it doesn't seem to apply to you. College admission officers expect more, not less, from kids of college-educated parents. </p>
<p>As for schools wanting "average" students, I'm not sure I follow the reasoning. In another post, you indicated your son was interested in Stanford and Vanderbilt. Those are selective colleges that most definitely don't want "average" kids. Even most state flagships these days have a fairly high bar of selectivity. You may want to check out a Fiske or other guide to colleges from the library and spend a little time studying the GPA and SAT/ACT score ranges and other interesting "Common Data Set" points. A different way to do it is to use the college search engines on this site and/or on College Board. </p>
<p>It's a little hard to tell what you are curious about vs. concerned about (alternating between curious and concerned is pretty much par for the course when you are the parent of a college applicant!). I think it's probably fair to way over-generalize and say, "Yes, college admissions officers will take a strong look at candidates from inner city magnets on the theory these kids had to work extra-hard to perform at the same level as kids from more advantaged backgrounds." It sounds like your family chose this school for the educational experience, but your background may not be considered disadvantaged. Arguably, this could mean some ad coms will hold your son to a higher standard of performance within his high school setting. Whether that occurs is really not worth pondering further, though, as your son needs to be performing at the highest possible level if he is aiming for selective colleges like Stanford and Vanderbilt.</p>
<p>(How do ad coms figure out your background? In addition to the fact that student essays often give away certain things, the Common App and most other apps seek some basic pieces of information about a student and his family that can be fairly revealing/profiling. There are lots of opinions about whether and how to answer certain questions in order to play up or dumb down certain things.)</p>
<p>I think it's also fair to way over-generalize and be curious/concerned about how well your school's graduates have performed in selective college settings, because even though the admits from your school may have had a bit of a leg up in admissions, their actual performance in college can be important to substantiating the feeling among ad coms that kids from this high school can cut it here...or the opposite. </p>
<p>Here are a few things I picked up over the course of this college admissions "game." YMMV, and the GC at your school may add, subtract or modify based on your school's unique situation and/or your GC's experience/opinion.</p>
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<li>Your high school's reputation with college admission officers - Start with the proposition that admissions officers are going to rely on any number of raw stats to get their first impression of your son's high school. (Of course, some will already know your school well; but others--possibly the majority--won't. Ad coms come and go. Newbies are hired. Geographical region assignments change.) One resource they will be furnished by your GC with your son's application (that's a good question, by the way--what does your school furnish to colleges in connection with your student's application?) is your High School Profile, which should be published on your school's website--otherwise, ask for it tonight. (If you don't know what a profile is, here is a sample published by the College Board:
Sample</a> High School Profile)</li>
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<p>A general question you might ask your GC is, what steps do the GCs take to further educate admissions officers about your school (and your child), i.e., do they supplement the profile in the written presentation? do they initiate phone calls (common if time permits)? does your school participate in college fairs, host reps on your campus or otherwise establish in-person links between college-school? </p>
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<li><p>One reason AP and SAT II tests exist is to help colleges compare students not high schools. In other words, if inner city magnet, East Coast elite prep and rural high school all offer AP Chem or equivalent, then in theory, all students scoring 4 & 5 on the AP Chem test and/or 700-800 on the SAT II should be considered of same/similar caliber regardless of which HS they came from and how robust or not their school's Chem curriculum really was (I'm just reciting scores for discussion purposes--they have no meaning.) So a question I might ask your GC is, what prep does our high school offer to help students make competitive scores on those tests?</p></li>
<li><p>In some competitive high school situations, which may apply to your magnet, some students and parents play one-upmanship and dog-eat-dog games with each other beginning about right now until the college enrollment papers are signed. Some students will go to crazy lengths to grade grub, rec grub, win leadership positions, apply to schools they don't really care about just to create a competition with a fellow student (there are a lot of other, more innocent reasons for "herd mentality" to occur as to apps to certain schools), etc. Some parents may helicopter these activities and also become secretive with other parents regarding the college application process (vs. openly sharing info, tips and lore) or, worse, drop misleading or even false facts. (Many senior parents naturally clam up to an extent about their child's pending applications, as the process is emotional and stressful for all concerned. I'm just talking about the potential for a change in dynamics of the usual parent coffee klatch.)</p></li>
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<p>I hope this kind of behavior doesn't happen at your school, but I just wanted to give you fair warning, as I was very naive about the process and caught off guard by some not-nice behavior. In addition to pure competitive forces, another driving force is often the notion that our children from our great high school are competiting against each other for that coveted spot at this special college. Honestly, you will make yourself crazy if you let your mind wander to, "How will the ad coms compare my child to fellow student from same high school who is also applying to the same college?" The party line is, colleges don't have a quota when it comes to admits from a particular high school. Each applicant sinks/swims on the merits. And as a practical matter, the two apps may, in fact, not be directly compared for any number of reasons, including one application may be early action and the other comes during rolling decision; one officer may read one and another officer is assigned to the other; etc. But formal or informal, there always exists the possibility of comparison of kids from the same school, which you really have to view as no different than comparison against the entire applicant pool, i.e., did you take the most rigorous curriculum available at your school? how well did you perform on that rigorous curriculum = GPA/rank? standardized test scores? ECs? teacher recs? essay? hooks? etc.</p>
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<li>College admissions is not fair. By that I mean, your child could be qualified, even over-qualified, for a particular school, but not admitted. There are any number of reasons, including yield management, hooks and the simple fact that ad coms are human beings, as illustrated in this blog post, which was much-discussed here earlier in the year:
Dirty</a> Secrets of College Admissions - The Daily Beast</li>
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<p>The takeaway from this is, applications need to stand out, to sing, to dance and to otherwise set your son apart from the crowd--clearly, his essay and short answer portions will be critical in distinguishing himself from the crowd; beware of getting too emotionally invested in certain schools; and make sure he develops a well-reasoned reach, match and safety list that includes at least one match school and one safety school that he'd be very happy attending.</p>
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<li><p>Visit colleges as your time and budget allow. If he can visit the top few he's seriously interested in, great. But an equally worthy activity is simply visiting nearby colleges he may have no interest in, but which can help him pick up on factors that he considers important, e.g., campus size, student population, residential life, student activities, athletics, fine arts, class size, town life, campus location in relation to town life, transportation options, climate, etc. </p></li>
<li><p>If your son stays stuck on those two schools as his favorites, more power to him! But don't be surprised if new names pop up, and then more new names! And some may be colleges you know little to nothing about...there are so many great colleges out there. It is a lot of fun to learn about less well-known gems, and it can be very exciting for a student to discover that college XYZ offers a highly-regarded program in the very topic that is your student's passion.</p></li>
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<p>Good luck.</p>