<p>Having fueled some of this notion a while back, let me revisit the topic. And let me quickly add, there is, imo, no matter what the silly lists and books proclaim, no comprehensive way to assess and respond. Much of this is indivudual “stuff”, emotions and feelings trumping thinking, and mostly managing egoes. And often parental egoes as much as students’ …those of Mr. and Mrs. Microwave from Darien,Connecticut but whose folks, the Kettles, once farmed wheat in Nebraska, but that was too tough and too unpredictably so off we went to NE to get enlightened and modestly wealthy in terms of money with no time for the kids. </p>
<p>And ironically, the NE “enlightened” kids are often the most closed-minded. As one prep school counselor in VT once told us, “our kids all wear the same clothes and as far as colleges go, they think the world ends at the Hudson River.” An interesting observation that informs such a discussion as this.</p>
<p>The Grinnell story is so reoccurring and validating among those who’ve somehow equipped themselves and their students to consider that life in Iowa or Colorado or Ohio might be very different than in Middlebury VT …and very worthy of consideration. </p>
<p>Basically, because of this geographical phenomenon and consequent perception of a huge proportion of college-bound students hide-bound to the Coasts or climes sunnier than Northfield Minnesota or Gambier Ohio or Danville KY or … my thesis is that Midwest schools in these seemingly most un-sexy of locales must do exceptional work to attract and retain top students from all over the planet. And they do. In other words, my speculation is that they have greater capacity for delivering on what they promise. They ain’t perfect. None are. But they can be spectacular places to live and learn, and often do so at a lesser net cost to Mr. and Mrs. M. </p>
<p>And if they’re really lucky??? They just might get “adopted” by Ma & Pa Kettle some Sunday, and invited out to the farm for a real meal and a mind-broadening experience. And besides, is there anything really wrong with having a little more assurance that your dearest daughter isn’t at risk being raped each night as she walks alone to the dining hall? Or having most of the passers-bye on the little town sidewalk, say “HI” and really mean it?</p>
<p>And in the end, coeds in Ugg boots and cute little wool scarves and matching mittens has a certain charm to it …Remember, Love Story had a whole bunch of heart-throbbing scenes in the snow, sipping hot chocolate and hot toddies at the local pub.</p>
<p>So …I believe Granville Ohio is one of the most lovely NE style towns on the planet with a superb LAC I “university” up on the hill, with a lovely chapel, looking exactly the way it’s supposed to be. And that college has a huge endowment, much of which it devotes to attracting top-shelf students, some but not most of whom might have a shot at Penn or Princeton but are none the less outstanding and from all 50 states and about the same # of foreign countries. Yep, not perfect, but pretty darn good. And you can fill in your own Granville. We saw a whole bunch of them where that Kettle conservativism was a very nice balance to the absurdities of Coastal liberalism. Balance, I call it.</p>
<p>btw, ours got into a number of the “big name” places and we live in the NE.</p>