<p>“Has either of your parents remarried?”
-Neither of my parents is remarried.</p>
<p>“With both you and your sister starting college, together, the EFC will be more like a 55/45 split between the 2 of you”
-Sorry, what do you mean by this?</p>
<p>“Absolutely included BU and any other schools that have historically been favorable in giving aid and scholarships to kids from your school.”
-I was in a new high school for the past three years, so the seniors above me are unfortunately the only ones who have graduated from m high school. However, I have to transfer to a public school for senior year, which typically sends a few kids to ivys and such every year, although I’m not sure what the financial aid offers typically are, and I’ll ask.</p>
<p>“Would it be better to get in and not be able to afford it? That sounds worse to me. Are you just keeping score?”
Definitely not, I just know that if I got in, I would do absolutely ANYTHING to be able to go, including asking extended family to pitch in and stopping my extracurriculars to work multiple jobs and taking out a lot of bank loans. I would rather have the option and work really hard and apply for a hundred scholarships than not get in at all. It’s definitely not to “keep score,” especially since i don’t intend to apply to schools I don’t truly want to go to. </p>
<p>“I strongly encourage you to also apply early in the cycle to any schools on your list that have rolling admissions or non binding early action.”
-I have about four schools on my list that I will be applying early to, three of which I will almost definitely be accepted to. Thanks! This is definitely good advice.</p>
<p>“It sounds, to me, that your mom feels very bad about how the divorce is affecting the kids so she’s being “supportive” of the ED app…even if it’s not a realistic strategy.”
-To be honest, the divorce isn’t affecting me badly AT ALL, and my mom knows it. I’m not lying when I say I’m not affected by not seeing my dad. My parents have been divorced before, and I cried when they got back together because I’m not a fan of my dad and I don’t mind not having him around, and if anything, I was glad when I found out they were getting divorced again. The reason why my mom is being supportive is because she believes that we’ll get enough financial aid, could have the forms waived, and even if not will still probably get good financial aid. 110K isn’t that much, especially compared to the families of most of the kids who apply to Duke. We will also very likely get a lot of the local scholarships in my town. Mostly, it’s just having hope that something will turn out right. My mom isn’t one to lie or be anything but completely sincere. If there’s one thing I’m sure of, it’s that my mom is fully on board, not just for my sake and with complete understanding of the possibilities and what it means. </p>
<p>Why not apply to Vanderbilt and USC (calif). They don’t usually require NCP info.
I am applying to Vanderbilt! Thanks so much to the person who suggested it, I’ve done a lot more research on it and it’s one of my top schools currently. However, I base my decisions on whether i like the school and I think I’m a good fit as a student, not financially, and USC is not what I’m looking for.</p>
<p>“If you talk to your dad and he PROMISES that he’ll fill out the NCP paperwork and supply financial info, then maybe applying ED isn’t that bad as long as you have other apps out there”
-I contacted him. He wants me to waive the forms but says he’ll “probably be able to find time” to fill out the paperwork if I can’t. In my dad’s terms, it I’m annoying about it and nag him to fill them out, I’ll probably be able to get him to do it.</p>
<p>" It is entirely possible that you and your twin might qualify for PELL and can use the Stafford loans towards your EFC, as some schools do not include loans or PELLS in the packages they give to the students"
-Sorry, I’m not exactly sure what you mean by this (I feel so clueless looking at this entire thread.) I know Duke gives mostly just grants and limits giving out loans, and in my case I would probably be granted mostly grants, by a large majority. I’m not sure if that gives you more information that you already have.</p>
<p>“if you need to be able to compare financial aid offers to determine the schools you can afford, then do not apply early decision. You won’t have the benefit of being able to compare offers and may have to commit to a school that then ends up being more expensive then you can honestly handle.”
-I’m really hoping that they take into account the mess that is my mom’s financial history, but if not, I know that there’s a possibility that I would be in trouble. Just a question: Can I take out student loans for my entire college cost (minus obvious scholarship deuctions) to be paid at the end of my four years? This sounds like a dumb question, but everyone here is assuming my mom will be paying for my college education, which I didn’t think would happen. Are the only loans I can have the ones given to me by the school, or can I also get bank loans and such?</p>
<p>Sorry for this very long response. I want to thank everyone again for responing. Although I know that I now feel even more confused in some ways, I also know what questions to be asking and how to proceed. Thank you especially to cptofthehouse for suggesting Vanderbilt, which I love! I would not have known their financial aid information if you hadn’t informed me of it.</p>