<p>I've heard pretty bombast statements from both spectrums and I'd assume the truth lies somewhere in the middle. How easy/difficult is it to have 'this' happen to you? I find it hard believe people's morals seem to suddenly lower once on their own, but I could be wrong? Does this stuff vary by school?</p>
<p>It would depend completely on your roommate. Some won’t do it at all, for some it’s a constant thing you’ll have to deal with. Depends if your roommate is single or not, depends if they hook up a lot. It’s a complete crap shoot.</p>
<p>Don’t view it in a moralistic way, either…people won’t not sexile you just because of morals. For all you know your roommate could have a serious girlfriend and you’d have a really similar experience if he was just hooking up all the time.</p>
<p>People also do have sex a lot before college too, y’know.</p>
<p>I think it also depends on your room situation. If you’re in a traditional dorm with hardly any lounges, then I think most people would be pretty respectful and not do it. If you live in an apartment/suite style dorms with a common room then I could see it happening a lot easier since there’s an easy place to crash.</p>
<p>It depends on your roommate- how much they “get around” or whether or not they have a serious bf/gf. </p>
<p>It really shouldn’t happen more than 1-2 times a week though, and never on school nights.</p>
<p>depends on your roommate. </p>
<p>Both my roommate and I unanimously agreed during our roommate agreement that no overnight guests would be allowed (and we both agreed that if they do wanted to come over, they can sleep on the couches or the floor in our living room (my dorm is suite-style), rather than in our room), so she can’t ask her boyfriend to come up and do their thing (she assured me well in advance before our roommate agreement that she doesn’t plan on having her boyfriend come visit her, though, since they’re 9 hours away from each other).</p>
<p>I’ve never heard of any of my friends being sexiled.</p>
<p>I was sleeping one weekend, my roommate came back with a girl. He opened my door to call me up, but I just pretended I was in deep sleep :)</p>
<p>they left about 10 minutes later.</p>
<p>It happens fairly frequently at least at my fairly high ranked school. Its really not a big deal though, you just go chill in someone elses dorm or the lounge for an hour or so</p>
<p>That’s not even the worst of it. There’s “sexutation”, “sexation”, “insexination”, and “antidisestablishmensexianism”</p>
<p>^just stopping by to say that I lol’ed at the last one.</p>
<p>As everyone else said it depends on your roommate.</p>
<p>Before we moved in my roommate, and I discussed this topic briefly but to the point. She said she would not be sexiling me because she wanted to wait until marriage or at least more than 1 year of dating. Never signed a roommate agreement (regret that), but if you have the chance to do so make sure to include this if you don’t want it to happen. By the way we where told we would have to sign one, but when the meeting came the CA’s didn’t even have the agreement forms.</p>
<p>Although a few weeks back I came back from lunch early because I wanted to drop of my backpack before work and I was blocked off from entering for about 3 minutes while her boyfriend put his shirt on. I have no idea what they where doing, and I can only imagine. Now we have it where they get a blocked of set of time once a week in our room to be alone. She did just mention that they might want a Friday/Saturday on top of it but I don’t think that is happening because he has a room too. I think that is fair because they get almost 4 hours to themselves in our room, what they do with their time is up to them.</p>
<p>Just be honest, and think fairly.</p>
<p>Some of you may be amused by Purpleduckman’s terms, but this is not a laughing matter, it is very very serious.</p>
<p>That’s why I’m here :)</p>