@lostaccount Nothing you said here is news because what you have expressed is as natural and unextraordinary as basic human needs. Don’t think for a minute what you are saying will cause any lost sleep because parents here have developed a pretty thick skin through real life vetting. Check this thread out: http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/prep-school-parents/1124520-negative-reactions-regarding-child-attending-bs.html#latest