<p>kayf--</p>
<p>If your State allows court ordered post-HS support to pay for college, it is a remedy and "go for it."</p>
<p>But, it isn't the norm according to this 2007 article.</p>
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According to the ABA Family Law Section Web site: If your divorce occurs under the laws of Alaska, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Kansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Mexico, North Carolina, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Vermont, Virginia, West Virginia, Wisconsin, or Wyoming, you cannot be ordered to contribute toward your kids’ so-called “post-secondary” education--what is more commonly known as “college” or “vocational training.”
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<p>By my count, there are 33 States that don't order post-HS support to pay for college.</p>
<p>As mdoc exemplifies, young adults don't always get help with college from married parents. </p>
<p>Why should a divorced parent be required by law to do something that she or he wouldn't have to do if married?</p>
<p>I've actually been involved in a case where the MOM got a larger share of the community property out of the divorce in exchange for MOM agreeing that she would pay 50% of COA of the "college of their choice" of her two kids. This agreement was entered as part of the decree and both parties stipulated that the college provision would be enforceable as "child support", i.e., by contempt as well as a money judgment.</p>
<p>MOM lived large on the settlement, did not go back to work and, you guessed it, when the kids reached college MOM had to liquidate the remaining property to pay her 1/2 or go to jail.</p>