<p>If the deferred suspension means that it’s gone off his record when he graduates and if it means life goes on as long as he doesn’t do anything untoward…I’d take it, but I would make the deferred suspension contingent on being able to live as far away as possible from the girl and ask that they not be in the same classes if at all possible. I think he should take the lead on wanting to get far away from the girl.</p>