<p>Because its driving me crazy. I've had a crush on this guy for 2 years and counting. He's never liked me that way. He doesn't like me that way now. And I imagine he won't later. I hate how I still have a crush on him even though I know the truth. It drives me crazy! I figured maybe if I got a crush on some other boy, it'd all be dandy, but he's the only one I like. I'm sure some of you guys have been in my position before. What do you do?</p>
<p>Same problem. I've liked a guy for 3 years (off and on since 8th grade). He's never showed any amount of interest in me ever. I know he would never like me, not even as a friend, which is better than now. But for the life of me I cannot help thinking about him. Yet, I know if he hasn't liked me in 4 years, chances are slim he'll change his mind. I see him every stinking day, which only makes it worse.</p>
<p>Good question, i could use an answer to that too... =P</p>
<p>edit - except that I'm a guy who likes a girl...</p>
<p>same problem, for a few months now. ahh, between this and the boys are weird thread, my normal levels of teenage girl angst are escalating quite rapidly.</p>
<p>lol alot of us are on the same boat</p>
<p>easy, focus your attention on someone else - preferably someone who will like you back so you won't have to keep on repeating this endless cycle</p>
<p>I've forgotten how to like anyone. =_=;;</p>
<p>ok this is gonna be my first post out of the frantic "i-need-to-get-into-college" forums, lol.
from my own personal experience, if i like someone and know that theres absolutely no chance they'll like me (like i actually went up to the guy and said "yo, i like u..." or some variation of that, and they've rejected me), i'll just get on with life. what i think is that, theres no point dwelling over guys who u have no shot with, ur just wasting ur time. and yes i know this is alot easier said then done. so if ur not a bitter person who holds grudges, try to befriend him (or her), let them see a different side of u thats like not obsessively in love with them. once this happens, maybe they'll actually think ur an interesting person, and talk to u and stuff. and hey, being friends is better than nothing right? on the other hand, if ur a bitter peron (like me, lol), just focus on all the things about that person that sucks. like with my guy, i stopped focusing on how amazing he looked/sounded when he played sax, and instead focused on his like awkward tall ungraceful figure...u know what i mean.
show interest in other guys (or girls), act like u dont need him (or her--im gonna stop doing this), or want him.
and yes, i know how awkward it is seeing him everyday, it makes it soooo much harder to get over him. but somehow, make urself busy, pay attention to the teacher in class instead of him, dont allow urself to think about him and every single thing he did, every single word he said to u...that'll just make things worse.
in short, dont over analyze, dont be desperate. get on with life. there are plenty of other people who'll appreciate u waaay more than him. </p>
<p>ps...i'm not actually as confident-ish (is that a word) as i sound...haha, and u might not agree with what i say, but just thought id let u know of how i got over my guy...</p>
<p>It's worse when the guy falls for you on and off...the constant messing with your mind and the "does he still like me?" is nUtSo. </p>
<p>Oh and then when he finds out that you're still in love with him and then USES you for your body...that's the best part <em>is dripping with sarcasm</em></p>
<p>What I hate is that the one I love is someone I also feel like I want to bitterly hate, as she's my rival in a certain organization, but she's too nice...I hate it!</p>
<p>im pretty good friends with the guy i like and its pretty painful
and yet i still keep on talking to him</p>
<p>wow...its crazy the things you admit under the comfort of anonymity on cc...</p>
<p>Haha. You're right. whenicomearound! :p</p>
<p>yes// i have a crush on this guy at church...man i don' think he knows i exist, even...eh.</p>
<p>Hm. Well, the boy I've been crushing on is actually my good friend right now. Which made it worse than when we weren't friends because atleast back then I could enjoy the mystery of not knowing how he felt about me or what he thinks and etc (I know A LOT more about him than before).</p>
<p>Well, I'm trying to focus my attention elsewhere. I suppose that really is the only thing youc an do. But at the end of the day... XD</p>
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preferably someone who will like you back so you won't have to keep on repeating this endless cycle
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v_v" how are you supposed to find someone who likes you (that you also like in return)? You make it sound like its easy.</p>
<p>it's the worst when they don't know you exist. At least for me, I get increasingly desperate for any adknowledgement every passing day :(</p>
<p>the thing is, i only see him once in like two weeks (because sometimes i go to church the day before), and only during mass. i see the back of his head and go nuts!!!!</p>
<p>i'm trying to get over it, though. like i said, i don't think he knows i exist.</p>
<p>aww! Yeah, when we weren't friends, he knew i exsisted because there was a time he /hated/ me. I kind of liked that he hated me. Becuase that meant I was on his mind. Then he stopped hating me (after I confronted him about whatever the problem was). I talked to him sometimes and that made me smile for the day. And now that we're friends, its not enough just to talk to him once that day
(Me: Uhm, what was our homework for History?
Him: Oh it was blah blah
Me: Okay... :) :) :) )
Now, I want to have more. Because of course when you're friends you're going to talk often. So I can't get my fill anymore.</p>
<p>Sorry, celebrian. I never had many crushes in my life, but whenever I did have a crush, I always found a way to get him to notice me.</p>
<p>Hey, if he doesn't know you exsist, you still have a shot at him! Talk to him or something?</p>
<p>scholarship, why not introduce yourself and at least give it a shot? You can never get anything if you don't try.</p>
<p>I kind of had this problem except with me the girl was like "i love u so much" one day and the next "your such a jerk sometimes"... what i ended up doing was going out with guys and hanging with a bunch of ppl that i usually didnt hang with, after a few weekends of not talking to her and hanging with so many ppl that i didnt have time to think about her i eventually just really forgot. After i stopped liking her we were friends for a while and then i noticed she was really manipulative so were not even that anymore.</p>