<p>Hey medha, I was in the same situation in high school. Large public school with four guidance counselors for over 2,000 students. These counselors not only had to worry about getting us into college, but also had to worry about students graduating high school at all. </p>
<p>I second the opinions that say, just remain on your counselor's radar while remaining very considerate. In this first meeting with your counselor, introduce yourself and let your counselor know who you are, what your goals and questions are. I'm sure your GC will be very happy to meet someone who is as motivated as you are. You can also email your GC once a semester, just to let your GC know about your progress. Your GC will most likely not write back (busy) but will be very glad to know you're doing well. I know my counselor did! I still email her now (=.</p>
<p>When it comes time to apply to colleges, you'll most likely be asked to fill out a form, listing your accomplishments, your activities, your plans, what makes you special, etc. You're essentially providing material for your own recommendation letter so do a thorough job. </p>
<p>And medha, I understand your choice to impersonate your parents. I take care of my family's health insurance, fill out all my own forms, have called the doctor for my parents. For your GC, I suggest you explain the language situation and tell her that if necessary, you'll translate for your parents. My GC was completely fine with me bringing in written statements that were translations of what my parents said.</p>