<p>I think all of this depends on the parent’s philosophy, means and “willingness” to provide more spending money for the child during college years.</p>
<p>I know there are parents who decide on the frugal side and rightfully so, given the sacrifices made by the families already, as well as the steep “real” costs without factoring in the personal expenses.</p>
<p>In our situation, the first year, our family actually was doing fairly well financially after some stock gains (though alas that situation has changed for next year). Also, my S got an unexpected generous scholarship from NYU. I also know that S does not just focus on studies but he partakes in many ECs, which I consider to be important to his psychological well-being, as well as possible golden opportunities for networking. So, I had made the decision to ease his financial burden as much as possible during the school year and allow him a little room to enjoy some of what NYC provides without worrying about living on an overly tight budget. For instance, many free events are available but those entail long lines and time involved in waiting. So, for S to go to some but pay for other events at a discounted price so he can save time (a precious commodity in college) was one of the things I happily provided for S through a “mid-range” allowance.</p>
<p>S was busy with the NYU Mock Trial Team and trying to produce some music recordings, as well as planning for gigs around the city (which hopefully will result in some “paid” appearances later on). In the meantime, he also has to focus on some demanding course work while keeping a balance in his life.</p>
<p>S will be working 8 weeks in the summer to earn a few thousand dollars for his own expenses for the coming year. So, it is not like he does not pull his own weight. In fact, I have known my S and his habits throughout HS. He spent a lot of time in community service, building school spirit, etc. I think this same zeal in him needs to be nurtured by freeing him up from excessive worries about finances. This will come soon enough when he graduates and begins to work for his own living.</p>
<p>Right now, I want him to learn to work within his given budget, which I think is a challenge for him already, given our own family’s not so frugal spending habits and the attractions in NYC.</p>
<p>So, the “estimated” costs really depend, as reflected in the many different responses. The new student coming to NYU has to decide what he/ she needs, what the family and student can and are willing to afford (this also refers to necessary sacrifices), then make a decision based on the person’s own circumstances.</p>
<p>However, the real costs are there. By the way, we used [Cheap</a> Textbooks, College Textbooks, and Used Textbooks | Textbooks.com](<a href=“http://www.textbooks.com%5DCheap”>http://www.textbooks.com) and bought used books for my S for freshman year, so his book budget was minimal for this first year.</p>
<p>Tuition and Fees: $41,000
Dorm: $12,250 for a double, the most common dorm room (7,000 for LCT in Rubin only and 9100 for other triples, 14,490 for a Single)
Meal Plan: $3860 for the minimum plan ($4430 for the max meal plan)
Books: $1000 alloted by school (S spent less by buying most books online, maybe $500-600; but he did not have to buy any expensive texts, like for science courses, for this year; all softcover books).</p>
<p>So even the real costs are around $57,000 for the typical NYU student before any personal allowance money or insurance, if needed. As I said before, the only way to knock this down substantially is by going with the Rubin LCT at around $7,000, if available. This would bring the total real costs down to the $52,000 range some mentioned already.</p>
<p>Hehe, this bring us right back to OP’s original question and the price range mentioned.</p>