<p>So I'm in my second year of university, after studying my butt off trying to raise my GPA from the atrocity it was last semester and interning at a major company for most of the Fall, I realized that since attending college, I haven't gone to a single party. NOT...A....SINGLE...ONE.</p>
<p>Now normally, this wouldn't be a big deal for me, I have always been the friendly loner type of guy who chats with fellow classmates during breaks or study hours instead of wanting to be in a huge social environment. But I feel like I'm missing out on an important part of the college experience that I see others are enjoying. </p>
<p>The thing is, I have no idea when or where parties are taking place, I commute to my university down in Brooklyn ( I live in Queens), so I guess that's one of the reasons why I'm so disconnected with the community at my university. </p>
<p>I'm transferring to Queens College ( costs less, much more closer to home, and it has the field of study I want) for the Spring, so I wanted to ask. Am I a loser because I don't go to any parties or such?</p>
<p>I think you should consider seeking professional help…</p>
<p>No, kidding. There is nothing abnormal about not partying… as long as you keep some sort of social life, which you do. There is no college experience that you are missing out on… because those experiences happen without expecting it.</p>
<p>But maybe you don’t have a big expectation.</p>
<p>You’re not a loser because you don’t go. If you want to go, you should try going. It’s insanely fun. But if you don’t want to, then you don’t need to, and you probably won’t have fun.</p>
<p>I think the main concern is “the college experience.” I’m guessing your transfer to Queens university will solve the problem of not knowing when and where parties are. I’ll stand by what I said… that if you go into a situation expecting some wonderful time that you’ll always remember, you might be dissapointed.</p>
<p>“Am I a loser because I don’t go to any parties or such?”</p>
<p>From this question alone, you’re either a ■■■■■ or an extremely underdeveloped human being.
If the latter, I will say that you’re a loser. Now I will say that you’re not a loser. I hope this sheds lights on your development.</p>