<p>Just curious, do you females care more about ''looks'' or personality?
PLEASE be honest. Please.</p>
<p>dude....it's high school....worry about girls if you're unmarried when you're 35. i promise you, you will meet someone in college.</p>
<p>25% looks, 75% intelligence/personality...I think I'm just really attracted to smart boys, so they look better to me..haha</p>
<p>Girls care more about personality and intelligence.</p>
<p>Guys care more about looks.</p>
<p>^^^that is so completely true. </p>
<p>I would say 50-50. The intial attraction is usually looks, but as you get to know someone you could find out you really like them/dislike them regardless of how they look. But if there is absolutely no attraction, I can't see anything happening.</p>
<p>I care more about personality. For girls and guys. Although I'll be honest, I'm more physically attracted to girls and more attracted to guys for their personality. </p>
<p>So, I'm a shallow guy (when it comes to dating girls) and a deep girl (when it comes to dating guys). :]. Lol.</p>
<p>There has to be physical attraction, because you're not going to marry someone that you're not physically attracted to. But at the same time, you're not going to marry someone that you're repulsed by personality wise.</p>
<p>^^^^
Exactly.</p>
<p>Personality matters more, but looks do count for some.</p>
<p>***....
Girls are almost as superficial as men when it comes to high school....</p>
<p>I think that it is 50-50. It's nice to find an attractive guy that has a great personality. There are a lot of guys that aren't the best looking, but I am attracted to them because they are smart, funny, etc.</p>
<p>These kinds of threads always end in a heated argument between wutangfinancial and whichever female poster feels combatitive at the time. Why don't we just agree that looks and personality both play a significant role in relationships, and leave it at that.</p>
<p>looks get the attraction started, but it's the personality that finishes the job</p>
<p>^ Couldn't have been stated better.</p>
<p>wellll i definetly wouldnt go out with someone i wasnt attracted to, but i need to like their personality too</p>
<p>Looks are like a good school, they get your foot in the door. But the personality is the interview to decide if you're a right fit or not. Haha I had to put it in CC terms.</p>
<p>You don't have to spend much time looking around before you spot a girl dating a sexy jerk who treats her poorly. The reverse is rarely true, comparatively.</p>
<p>I'm not saying all girls are shallow, of course, or that girls are any shallower than guys. Males put just as much emphasis on looks when picking a mate; the only difference is it's more acceptable for them to be honest about it.</p>
<p>haha :D</p>
<p>well I'm picky so I like guys that are cute AND smart.. :)</p>
<p>mmm but now that I think about the looks are actually what I notice first (most times). often I'll be attracted to a guy to find that's he a complete idiot. that's where I move on.</p>
<p>Girls care a lot less about looks than men. An ugly guy can still be popular with girls if he's a good friend. Sometimes you'll see obese guys dating attractive women, but you will almost never see an obese woman with a really good looking guy.</p>
<p>High school girls (and guys) will judge you by your social status, so it might be a good idea to date outside your school if your status sucks. Girls from outside your school won't be able to tell that you have bad social standing, so they will judge you on your own merits.</p>